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My first swollen hand

2011-09-21T02:43:00.001+08:00

Since it's my first time then the more I should blog about it right? LOL

I sprained my thumb I think? Had been pained for few days and decided to visit those tui na physician.

Since I have to start working soon..

But i didnt expect it to be so ex as mine was like so minor only

It's costed me 30 bucks leh! Xim Tia..

He wrapped my hand like bazhang with those uncle medicine smell~

Which is so pungent that my girl refused to sleep with me and quickly ran to sleep with my mil and told her it was smelly -.-

Ding Tea!

2011-09-21T01:54:00.001+08:00

Coming soon!

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Photo fun!

2011-09-14T23:14:00.001+08:00

Was quite bored during the afternoon.

Read XX's blog and saw the post about photo edit apps!

So decided to try some, since i had quite a no. of photography apps that I didn't have the chance to use it. So why wasted it right?

BUT.. Free apps usually not those good stuffs!

So I get the "pretty cam" app to try out! Which is very fun leh!

Played with some of the pics too! But not convenient to show lol.

Testing

2011-09-14T04:38:00.001+08:00

When I bought blogpress app. Here comes blogger app and it's free!

Try blogging with that app now

Lantern festival 2011

2011-09-13T00:48:00.001+08:00

It's part of our family gathering during mid autumn festival!

Every year we will go to Labrador park with my dad's side relatives.

Same location, same pavilion, and almost same foods like last year.

The only difference is that our family members keep increasing!

Most of our generation who should get married already married, who should give birth alr became parents! Next will be my Sis turn! Excited!!

Do you guys missed her? :)

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It have been so long!

2011-09-10T04:40:00.001+08:00

I think my lil space here has alr turned moldy.. I think it have been a year since I'm here right?

I'm still deciding to come back blogging or not?

To change URL or not.

Still wondering whether all my past readers will still coming back or not?

Tsk! How?

Actually blogging does give me a lot of memories and that I can look back from the archives..

Well well, now what are the changes is my girl have grown up to a big girl, as for me, my hair grown longer and I'm older.

Wait till if i have decided to come
back again then I'll upload some of our pics! TTFN!

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Should I?

2011-09-10T04:03:00.001+08:00

Feels like coming back to blog! Should I? Should I?

outdated BKK post ( day 1)

2010-10-09T01:17:00.009+08:00

finally, i gonna update the so long awaited post!

but seriously i can't recall much eh

so the pictures will do some of the talking

and i'll try to remember what we did for the 4d3n trip okay?

i was damn shagged the first day!

dint sleep the last night before our trip because im a night owl?

my usual sleeping time the EARLIEST will be 2am?

but we have to get prepared by 4am as we get the 7am flight and have to check in 2 hrs earlier. so i decided not to sleep.

some pictures before our flight and on the flight.

and can see my heavy eyebags and dark circles.

i have it now too but worst if i dont sleep :(

reached BKK!

which was around 8am there? if im not wrong. (sg time is one hour later than them)

bil gf's was waiting for me outside the departure hall

and bring us to the hotel by taxi.

how nice was she! :D

with a thai around us we don't feel like an outsider or afraid being conned anymore.

reached the hotel,

it's still early and we can't check in yet so we place our luggages there first.

we stayed at GRAND DIAMOND HOTEL!

and its just less than five minutes walk to the all time favourite platinum mall!

so we decided to have our breakfast there.

just upload one picture for show only LOL.

i had bee hoon soup btw.

after the foods,

we went for a walk at the mall first since it's still damn early can

grabbed the pictures from my sis's friend weifen!

oh. we didn't shop any as we feeling shagged and still feel abit ridiculous to see so many stuffs at one go.

NO MOOD lah! need some warm up.

cause i still have the feeling at SG mah without realising the stuffs there are damn cheap so don't dare to chiong.

time to check in as we asked whether we can have it earlier.

and tadah!

that's our room.

yes it kinda big!

shiok! not very high class

but it's alr too good for us because our motive there is to spend on shopping!

checked out the hotel awhile and off we go to have massage!

we have complimentary massage vouchers from thai embassy mah!(all thanks to madeline's colleague!)

UNION MALL NEXT.

over there i suddenly have the form to go shop already! haha

not much,but i see something i like it alot i BUY!

because im telling myself if i come here i don't shop. i will be damn damn regretted later. LOL

had A&W for lunch!

you can't find it in SG anymore :(

i loves the rootbeer float!

after our lunch,

we went to the shopping mall next to it ( i forget what is it called)

for some naraya stuffs hehe

didn't snap any pictures though.

BUT we get to take the cupnoodles pics we are getting for our supper!

i loves this brand of instant noodles so much!

a must try to this creamy tomyam and minced pork cupnoodles!

duh, it's a long and tiring day okay?

but we still trained down to chinatown for our dinner.

it's just like we travelling from east- west.

around 30mins time.

damn sleepy lor!

i dozed off LOL! sure damn unglam de!

TUKTUK!

we took that from the station we alighted to chinatown streets.

OUR SEAFOODS DINNER!

my all time favourite tomyum!

i always loves hot and spicy stuffs!

PRAWNS!

by seeing the pictures is enough to make you all drool right?

BIRDNEST! very generous serving! very cheap but forget how much

the a must stuffs for me! CHILLI~

well compared the seafoods with phuket's one.

i preferred the phuket's seafood!

taste better!

we went back to the hotel after that.

it's 9pm plus if im not wrong ( their time)

i bathed and KO immediately after that!

i can no longer tahan for not sleeping the one whole day.

still remembered last time before im a mother i can tahan for 2-3 days for not sleeping. okay lah maybe not that's exaggerating. maybe slept for 2-3 hours i will be enough.

but now cannot! no more stamina! CAN DIE~

LOL

okay wait for my day 2 and day 3 post. tata~

2010-10-01T01:27:00.002+08:00

spent great time at USS on wednesday!

will blog about it LOL!

aiyer.

i don't know what happened to my blog's layout. and i don't know why my tagboard column is below the post?

will try to check out when im free alright? :)

2010-09-22T02:30:00.003+08:00

the past events i will slowly update.

esp that 2 months ago bkk trip muahahaha.

well, here are things from recently.

so happy right? finally im updating

don't be too overjoyed yeah?

because it's not much, but better than nothing. :D

here's are some videos.

Cheryth is following the movements with her daddy!

looks stupid but kinda funny!!

and this is the tozzle games that she loved playing since 16 months old

which only recently then i realised my camera actually can takes down video. LOL

no lah. just forgotten about my camera existance!

while past events with the mummies,

i shall not elaborate as i believed most of you have already seen it from the mummies's blogs.

so click on my ads if there's any please!

it's takes me a lot of courage to blog again okay? D:

give me some more time.

2010-09-04T01:55:00.002+08:00

i will come back and blog once i have the motivation.

btw, i have some drafts still not yet completed.

which means i will blog hur? but maybe not so soon.

i can blog often if it's without pictures.

if you guys was thinking what's so hard and took me so long to blog

then i will tell you it's the process on uploading pictures and paste the URL in it turns me off..

if you guys are my readers please help me click on my ads alright? thank you very much! LOVES (Y)

2010-08-20T02:12:00.002+08:00

alright i admit im lazy to blog.

so im gonna neglect it till i feels like to

tomorrow will be meeting the mummies!

am so excited!

hehehe.

we the mummies will enjoy it so is the kids hur?

hopefully my girl doesn't misbehave!

let's pray *fingers crossed*

some overdue pictures from JUL.

2010-08-08T00:08:00.003+08:00

i will upload some pictures of my dearie first before im update my BKK post.

but it takes some time for me to blog.

im kinda busy nowadays!

so sorry!

that's my cheeky girl!

i find that after she starts her school,

she have more and more patterns!

her action are cuter too!

sometimes i was telling myself to cry or to laugh?!

*shakes head*

2010-08-04T22:46:00.002+08:00

I AM BACK since monday!

had so much fun shopping over there!

bought quite a no. of clothes too!

MIGHT be selling some if it's doesn't suits me

because i just buy buy buy when i see something nice!

and haven't even tried on it yet.

after unpacking everything i don't have the time to admire the clothes at all.

it's seriously causes me headache to pack it into a luggage and unpacked it when im back.

GOSH!

i seriously get hooked on going shopping there alr.

im planning to go again next year!

update soon!

2010-07-27T00:23:00.002+08:00

actually, i have quite a numbers of my dearie pictures to post.

but im either lazy or busy to do it.

and her 18th month old progress!!

well, i guess i shall wait till im back from BKK then i upload it?

at the meantime, please support me by clicking on my ads alright?

i will try to take more pictures when im there too!

2010-07-16T01:56:00.002+08:00

Currently, i have nothing to update nor any photos taken.

my life have been so stagnant lately.

but my mood is getting bad

i have no tolerance on those shits anymore!

damn pissed!

every monday and wednesday is Cheryth playgroup day.

the rest either im staying at home or going my mum's place.

BUT im flying off in 2 weeks time!

am so excited......

i try to update after im back from there :)

after this trip i shall plan another next year with friends!

day out with two mummies!

2010-07-09T14:09:00.000+08:00

this is my first time going out with mummies!

meet up with pearl and yanwen with their two lovelies.

it's was another experience for me since i have never went out with people with kids before.

like while we eating we have to take about an hour plus time because we have to handle with the kids.

and when it's around milk time, changing diapers time and nap time was all about the same!

very enjoyable for me :)

three of them at the ball pit!

both Cheryth and Velle enjoyed playing with it as Phelove is still young to play and throw the balls.

but she is observing the balls and the colours!

Phelove's smile can melts people heart!

was asking Cheryth to kiss velle.

and both of them goes "MmmmmmM"

so cute!

while we are leaving the place,

Cheryth refused to come up and kick a big fuss over it!

and seeing Cheryth cries, Velle frowned and wanted to cry too!

LOL.

Cheryth looks so giant compared to them cause Velle is really petite like her mummy!

and when Cheryth sits this she looks clumsy lah!

HAHA!

velle can really shake this okay!

Cheryth kinda afraid of it!

both of their girls really very well behaved!

while mine likes a lil devil =.=

fortunately, that day she is considered quite well behaved for me.

not as cranky like what i've imagined

Cheryth's 17th months progress.

2010-07-07T23:51:00.002+08:00

- now she drinks 240ml of gain iq mixed with brown rice.

-she understand a lot of things now eg.

we asked her to take tissue she will give it to me,
if something dropped she will picked it up and pass it to me,
i asked her to take her bottle and drink she will do it so.
when she sees my dogs vomit or poopoo she won't go near it and says eeeeee... and pointed there which she was asking me to clean it up! etc..

- likes animals a lot!

-likes to take my vacumn cleaner and mop to imitate me.

- started to like storybooks! err.. i mean the pictures!

-finally she can call me quite clear! now she calls me "mehmi" instead of " baby or "meh em"

i think her progress was roughly the same.

maybe, she have more things i have missed out.

but it's around the same like others :)

today, it's her first day of school!

at first she was quite uncomfortable and really very guai and sit with me and don't dare do anything

BUT!

after an hour like this she feels warm up alr

and she started to misbehave!

always wanted to climb up on the chairs and don't really want to cooperate with me or sit still.

but she still doesn't want to make friends with others :(

Cheryth doesn't seems to like little children eh.

shall expose her more!

her first art and craft with me!

this is done on her chinese lesson.

it's " JING CHA" i feel weird to speak mandarin with her LOL.

that's the fruit with seeds?

and lastly, marigold plant!

anyway, most of the job is of course done by me while she is enjoying playing with the glue

2010-07-06T23:42:00.002+08:00

ahaha! finally im done with the phuket post!

upcoming ones will be cheryth's 17months old progress!

im so excited!

tomorrow it's Cheryth first day of school!

i will be joining her :)

and at the meantime,

please help me to click on my ads!

let me earn some money by blogging! many thanks HEE!

Phuket part 3

2010-06-26T23:11:00.000+08:00

Day 3

we went for half day trip to Khai island!

at last, we got the chance to view and feel the clear waters and white sands...

of course, we cannot miss the snorkeling!

damn fun! first time frolicking with that goggles on the sea!

btw, Khai island consist 3 islands?

can't remember what is it.

anyway, we just went 3 places :)

our welcome drinks from the hotel.

we checked out at 12pm

at the speedboat.

that's our tour guide.

the first island.

second island,

but have to snorkel on the middle of the sea

im a weak swimmer so i dare not to go down.

cause there's jellyfish! as what the person says. *scary*

that's daddy!

only dad and bro is good at swimming!

i always out of breath when i swim LOL.

i doesn't have any sports cells in me.

third island.

LMAO! i asked my sis to take me enjoying the water!

but the effect doesn't turn out very nice though.

my sissy!

the water is so clear that the fish is so visible man!

when we feed them bread they will come and surround us.

eeks. hates them being so near me!

that's end of our trip.

BYE BYE PHUKET!

we took the 10 pm flight back and reached SG around 12 plus am.

got hubby a Gordon Bleu!

since he likes that so much and didn't managed to get him stuffs over there also.

he is very happy when i got him this!

so i take this as his father's day pressie! :)

the next day,

hubby treated dad to Carousel for his belated birthday cum Father's day

but he is working!

LOL!

he missed the good foods....

Phuket Part 2

2010-06-25T01:21:00.004+08:00

DAY 2

Breakfast.

we supposed to wait at the lobby at 9.30am waiting for the person to fetch us.

but it's raining and only know the trip was cancelled when we asked the front desk to call for us

they had leave a message for us at the room but we were downstairs for breakfast so we are not informed.

they told us that it's too windy for us to leave the sea.

and disapointment strucked us!

TSK!

no, the one who are the most disappointed was my sis!

since the trip was cancelled, we went back to the hotel and take a nap as there's no activity for us.

but we just slept for 1 plus hour because my sis was nagging and complaining all the way!

so we have to give in to her and we went to have lunch. LOL

told dad that i want to eat KFC.

so when we are walking to Jung Ceylon

there's a tuktuk driver offered to drive us to some activities centre or something

since we have got nothing to do and bro wants it so we went there.

but before that the driver was nice enough to bring us for KFC at Jung Ceylon!

he waited for half an hour?

without even complaining! i mean the people there are all so patience and friendly!

Singaporeans should learn from them.

they don't even rush us to pay or we can even pay them later after we took their stuffs etc.

alright, so we are at the activities centre which has go kart, shooting stuffs etc.

and the things there are NOT cheap.

that's meant for tourist.

BUT we got "tok" willingly

because in the first place we already knew it!

btw, the auntie and her kids are not with us.

didn't join the shooting game cause only 10 bullets and cost around SGD 60 bucks?

freaking ex! not worth plus im not really interested!

well, im interested in this...

KARTING!!

i drive so slow man.

im so accident prone that im afraid of knocking on the kurb or get accident.

because i know i have a girl needs me to take care.

LOL! CHOY!

im still around....

because i drive SLOW.....

people who known me well will more gan chiong to see me drive things like this man!

because they don't have confidence in me.

they see me fell down too much and knocked on things too much

RIGHT????

when we leave the place it's still early

and the sun is so big at that time

so i asked sis to go patong beach for a sun tan since we are so free..

by the way it's alr 2 plus and i know the sun won't be there for long.

here are some rare bikini pictures!

MUAHAHA!

as what i predicted,

the sun isn't there for long at all! so im not even tan.

i think im just 10% done.

it've been so long since im letting the sun to roast me.

hubby doesn't like me to be tan because im not a fair skinned person so if im tan i will be darker than the fairer ones.

EVENING,

we had massage after we bathed.

the massage was like no KICK!

fail fail fail!~

NO GOOD!

everyone was complaining it's feels like people touching only

and it's 400 baht for 2hours.

what's disgusted me was when they massage your feet still touch your face/ head okay!

YUCKS!

but the people there are really nice.

so im not even angry.

for dinner, we had it at the same place!

but not having seafood but simple dish.

of course there's tomyum!

im a spicy lover okay???!

this fried rice looks simple.

but it's freaking nice!

we had a lot for this haha :)

after dinner, we bring them around the place we had went the day before.

then that's the end of day 2!

*to be continued

Phuket Trip PART 1.

2010-06-23T02:32:00.007+08:00

DAY ONE

had breakfast at Boonlay Market and headed off to Changi Airport at 5 plus am.

checked in and we had some shopping at DFS.

mummy bought a winne the pooh puppet for Cheryth

and a facial wash for me!

thanks mum!

at coffeebean

in the airplane.

was wondering why there's only a very small part of the sea is bright clear colour surround those certain islands? hmm..?

reached phuket,

was too early to check into the hotel

so the tour guide that fetching us from the airport brought us to some free halfday tour?

boring like hell!

actually, i don't like tour guide bringing us around.

i preferred it to be independent.

he brought us to t-shirt factory,honey outlet, local products store and a fishball noodles restaurant that sells terrible fishball noodles!

what's worst was i ate only one mouthful and don't feel like continuing it anymore

but i accidentally spilt the whole bowl on my pants and bag.

so UNLUCKY!

because the toilet was...

and i couldn't check into the hotel YET!

BOO!

finally at their 12pm which is our 1pm

we can check in!

anyway, we stayed at Club Adaman Resort

it's only four stars but their rooms are quite clean though.

and it's so near the Patong Beach!

judge from my pictures, you can see my dark circles are super dark!

all thanks to me for not sleeping well the previous night.

added all my sleep included the one is plane was just around 1hr?

I AM TIRED LIKE MAD!

at around noon time,

me, sis and bro went to explore around the beach

but im too tired to enjoy it and wanted to leave it for the next day

so me and sis went to hunt for our bikinis!

i don't know mine is it consider cheap ?

it cost me 399 baht which is less than 20 sgd.

anyway,you can't find anything cheap at this tourist spot that's mostly filled with angmohs~

so don't expect much!

EVENING TIME!

we paid the deposit for the day trip.

then we went for dinner just opp the booth which they told us it's nice?

for dinner, we had seafood!!

YUMS!

not very cheap lah!

but nice! it's near the beach there.

the tomyum was good! but not spicy enough even though we added more chilli powder in it.

LOBSTER! very nice! but we finished it very very fast! :(

grilled sotong! ahh. im hungry by looking at this!

after the dinner,

the rest went back to the hotel while me, sis , mummy,vincent and his gf's sis wanted to walk around the streets!!

the people there tell us to shop at the big shopping mall at Jung Ceylon and the night market at Bangla street.

being ignorant,

we thought the streets is filled with bangala? LOL

but we are wrong!

it's night market that sells foods, clothes accessories etc.

but the stuffs there are not very nice and ex!

im saving till im going BKK next month!

OH! and the transvestite here are super freaky "awesome" like hell

PUKES man! should get what i mean?

i always thought thailand has the most beautiful ah guas?

after all the walking without getting anything.

we went to Jung Ceylon Carrefour to get some drinks and stock up the hotel fridge.

didn't expect we still have the energy to walk back okay?

it's around 20-25mins time to reach!

when we are back to the hotel,

im hungry again so i called for room service for some food!

LOL.

it's a bad habit for me to had supper everyday

if i don't take any supper i can't get to sleep.

i know it's super unhealthy! but i can't helps :(

*to be continued

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!

2010-06-22T01:55:00.004+08:00

15th June

went to mum's place earlier with Cheryth

it's my dad's birthday!

this was the first time Cheryth cutted cake with him as last year Cheryth was having high fever.

the candles is blown by her all by herself!

don't know whose birthday was it hur?

and amazingly, she know the sequence of cake cutting!

firstly, waiting for us to finish the birthday song

secondly, to blow the candles and then she took the knife and attempt to cut the cake!

i think she does remembered her previous cake cutting sessions! LOL

CHEEKY GIRL!

i stayed over at my mum's place while hubby bring Cheryth

as we will be flying off very early in the next morning

I am back from Phuket!

2010-06-20T01:18:00.002+08:00

im back from Phuket last night!

i will try to update soon~

swimming day at lakeshore!

2010-06-15T01:48:00.005+08:00

THURSDAY

some pictures to share with you guys

brought Cheryth for a swim again since hubby took off

and we decide it only at last min

so we reached there kinda late?

but this time we went to Lakeshore

super clean and not much people!

I LIKE!

i don't like places with too much people around

oh well, i will be flying off to phuket like on wed early in the morning!

im so gonna miss my girl girl so so much!

and of course not forgetting my hubby!

i will not be seeing him much for these 2 months.

cause the week after next, he will be going reservice for 2 weeks!

and then 3 weeks later after he's back i will be flying off again :(

alright, i promise i will come back with solid update on my trip if i were to take much photos.

being a short memory person

i may even forget to bring my camera!

hope i don't miss out my passport HAHA!

that's why i keep asking the people around to remind me to bring passport!

i was like telling my MIL that Cheryth seems to look like those dirty kids nowadays

maybe her perspiration and she likes to anyhow touch those outside walls etc. which i really can't stand it!

to be frank, i can get very very angry if i see her touch those things and they even allowed her to do so!

i don't know why.

but im sort of cleanliness freak for that.

me myself don't like to touch those things either.

and i don't like strangers to touch her!

i know im very rude being like that!

really can't help.. :(

i will get very pissed off but i won't go and do it very obviously?

people touch the kids mean they like right?

but i just don't like people to touch my stuffs... really!

on the happier note,

Cheryth have gained some flesh already!

am so happy!

because nowadays i secretly add the fish which she hates it previously into her porridge!

who knows she really finished it!

i guess it's the fish to make her grown!! hehe

2010-06-12T02:29:00.003+08:00

feel like changing my blog's URL

hmm. still thinking of a better one !

will be back blogging if i upload those pictures into my comp.

4 more days to my short getaway!

the white sandy beach~

here i come!!

a day out with the girls!

2010-06-10T23:00:00.002+08:00

SUNDAY

went town with the girls !

peilin wanted some retail therapy as there are GSS ongoing

didn't want to bring my girl along because i know she will misbehave when she needs some sleep.

thanks to both of them keep wanting me to bring her out, so i did!

this is the first time Cheryth went town together with them.

my instinct was correct

she gets CRANKY when we reached orchard

when they shopped at TANGS she screamed for very long until i let her down to walk.

then we had lunch at FEP and back to TANGS again for more shopping as pei needs to accumulate 15 more bucks to be a member

and she makes noise again man!

i think the person there will be thinking why this girl can cried for so long? LOL

i tried to make her sleep but she refused.

she just not afraid of me at all!

her mood turns better after she sees all the toys from the kids section!

peilin and szehan got her a toy each

everyone really spoilt her so much

whenever she went out with who

she will gets something at least!

DUH! now she's only afraid of her dad

so now i will swap my role with hubby

at first,we discussed i will be the bad person while he will be the nice one

after which, we went to ION as pei wants to shop for more.

a person gave Cheryth a balloon

but peilin insist to get each of the colour for her

so she got three!

it's so "chor teng"

but Cher LOVES balloons so much!

finally, she fell asleep after she drank her milk

she is real tired that even the pram can't low down she is still able to sleep!

Pei wants to go Marina Bay Sands for a look.

so we took the circle line!

first time taking it!

we feel so sua ku!

so we take pictures for some keepsake HAHA!

this is how Cher usually sleeps,

without her eyes totally shut

looking so auntie after being a mum!

im coaxing her to sleep back!

on the way to marina bay sands

at marina bay sands shopping centre

still not yet officially opened

there only LIMITED foods there!

very sian!

the toys that both yiyi got for her!

swimming and kidz amaze

2010-06-06T01:05:00.001+08:00

SATURDAY

promised Cheryth last week that i will be bringing her for a swim but my menses came so i have to postpone it to saturday since it's hubby off day too

but didn't expected that it's raining that day in ther morning!

so pissed! because hubby last min told me that he have to go back his workplace at 3.30pm

and the rain only stopped at around 1pm?

since hubby can't make it, i asked my brother along!

and he agreed :)

i can't handle alone with Cheryth if i going for a swim man

didn't brought her float along as we thought if the rain didn't stop we can bring her to kidz amaze.

but when we reached jp the rain stopped so hubby asked me to get this arm's float for her as she can shake her arms while swimming and won't catch a cold or something?

but he's thinking too much!

Cheryth hates it!

i think it have been too long since her last dip in pool

so when she was in the pool at first, she cried.

she's afraid with those water sprinkles and the splashes from th pail too

but after much coaxing from me she get used to it and start enjoying!

kids do loves water isn't it? :)

we just swam around 45 minutes

then i brought her to kidz amaze since it's still early and maybe she will enjoy more there

and the good thing was her entry was FREE as she is under 18 months

mine only 2 plus but my bro have to pay

im so wrong that day! it's wrong timing to bring her there!

so many kids!

and even school students were there too

super super crowded

you know kids are still kids right?

they will just play and bang no matter what

and my Cheryth is like so fragile there

they keep bang and squeezed and i have to protect my girl preventing her to sprain or fall down into the pit!

im super regret bringing her that day.

first thing, it was too crowded

second thing, the playground is around 3 storey high

third thing, i HAVE to crawl into the small hole, climb up from the layer things.

SO TIRING! i have to admit im not young anymore! LOL

i got backache after i came back okay?

NOT FUN! NOT FUN!

worst thing was when i reached the top i went to the wrong side!

i have to climb down again and then climb up.

GOSH!

and i can't use the slide for shortcut to the bottom!

it will be not a task if im alone.

but seriously tough when im carrying Cheryth to climb up and down.

NO MORE STAMINA!

totally i climbed up and down about 4 times each.

all thanks to my brother~

it's such a tiring day for me and her!

she fell asleep less than 5 minutes when she's back

days out with families.

2010-06-04T01:32:00.002+08:00

SUNDAY

went habourfront with my in laws as BIL going for a haircut so i tagged along

don't want to stay at home which is so boring!

when we reached the salon it's still quite pack even though we had made appointment

but since we have some time we brought Cheryth to the playground.

so engrossed looking at the kids playing with the water.

still continue looking..

GOSH! can't tahan already! wanna chiong there!

luckily i stopped her in time

if not she will get wet!

didn't let her play with the water though

cause my tummy hurts that time and have not really in the mood.

next time then :)

MIL sees this and insisted to let her play with this mobile car

she thought it need help to step on that thing to move so she asked my BIL accompany her

but didn't know that it's come with the remote so we don't have to move it ourselves! SUA KU us!

ended up it was me who controlling her

BIL seems to have problem to move that thing

so din't take much photos here.

now Cheryth was like a bird with the wings hardened

when she is not confidence in walking she always want us to hold her hands if not she will cry

NOW?

when we wanted to hold her hands she will just swung it off!

and walk even faster that i can't even chase her..

so naughty right?

i always worried that people might not see her and knock onto her and cause her to fall on those rough surface.

in order to make her still to take pictures

i placed her on grass!

she wouldn't dare to move much!

HAHAHAH!

when we got her stand up.

she started to chiong already.

super misbehave

WEDNESDAY

went town for a walk

dinner at lucky plaza's ayam penyet ria

their ayam penyet always my hubby favourites!

yummilicious!

after the dinner, we walked around taka

didn't managed to get anything as nothing caught my eyes

just bought a pillow for Cheryth.

she only wants that pillowcase so i have to buy more if not she will stick to that smelly ones~

i really cannot stand her!

now she seems to be too overly-friendly!

imagine when we are on the train

she will wave hello with people that on board the train and says byebye to those alighting ones.

she likes especially those indians or bangala which i don't know why?

tends to be so friendly with them!

and when she walked around the shopping mall she just wave hello to almost everyone!

she passed by a toddler around her age in stroller she waved hello to her too!

but the girl seems stunned?

LOL!

nowadays Cheryth have so much so much patterns!

really very very cheeky!

2010-06-02T00:31:00.001+08:00

give me more ideas to blog please!

will be going out with hubby tomorrow again! WEE~

random post on recent events

2010-06-01T01:28:00.014+08:00

27th May

it's BIL gf's birthday !

hope she'd enjoy her first birthday celebration with us!

Cheryth always very "kaypoh" one.

whenever we sings the birthday song she always thought we sang it to her

even MIL's birthday she also like that!

28th May

went marina with hubby without Cheryth

it's our er ren shi jie! :)

we wanted to go Marina Bay Sands to have a look but while walking half way we received a call from MIL that we should go off and meet her soon.

as we will be having belated birthday dinner with BIL's gf at JP.

i know we are very lame to go marina for less than 2 hrs then back to jurong again.

but that day i really feel like going out!

which i can't explain why either

the helix bridge!

very pretty right?

but we didn't get the chance to cross the bridge :(

at JP new york new york.

she has so many patterns! she took the plate and wanted to cover her face when BIL's gf taking her pic!

act shy only~ *roll eyes*

i zoomed my camera so she didn't notice im taking her hehe.

29th May

it's my grandma's birthday!

which was held at my cousin's condo function room

there have many balloons and Cheryth was super HIGH!

she loves balloons and balls!

and that time she even mistaken an egg as a ball! LOL!

now she has the confidence in walking outside herself already!

and she isn't afraid that she might fall or something

she risked herself and walk damn fast down the slope which makes my heart skipped a beat!

when i stopped her on doing so she will swing off my hands and walk even faster

super daring which i really BTH about it!

once again,

happy birthday grandma!

hopes you always stays healthy!

p/s: 2 more weeks for my short getaway! YAY!

Cheryth's 16 months old progress

2010-05-22T13:21:00.000+08:00

we got her fringe trimmed!

very ugly but kind of cute..

look more guai but still as naughty as ever!

walk more steadily now just that still not very confident walking outdoors she will hold on to our hands.

when we say gai gai she will go to the shoes cupboard and opened the door to take her shoes

when we ask her question YES OR NO? she will nod or shake her head.

when we show her ABC she will be able to recognise for awhile just awhile..

can stack up blocks and more..

speaking with her alien language now.. i don't understand at all? maybe she's trying to speak in sentence

can point more on her body parts. eg. feets, hands etc. able to do washing hands pattern too and etc.. when we asked her to do so.

still only have 7 teeths now! very very slow.

she might have more stunt that i have missed out.

because she always have new pattern everyday.

kids are so amazing!

they can really learned a lot of things every single day.

do things out of our expectations

and a month progress will be so much different!

now i know why the first three years is the most crucial time for them to learn!

2010-05-21T00:57:00.002+08:00

peeps! i know i've been neglecting my blog for so long

but i've nothing to blog about seriously.

i've been staying at home everyday as usual.

just went out once or twice a week only :(

and you guys don't expect me to blog about the same old things over and over again right?

i understand as i also a reader of some blogs.

whenever they never update i will be very sian

but i really don't want to update the same old stuffs i did everyday.

because it's almost the same.

if my girl loves taking pics maybe i will post it up

BUT.

she just refused to look at the camera!

anyway,

i promise you guys i will update a solid post after i went for the phuket trip this JUNE with my family without Cheryth along of course!

as for the BKK trip,

im still not sure will we be going there as it's still kind of chaotic

if not i will be going HK

don't really feel like going HK because the stuffs there are not very cheap so i won't shop till i drop like i shop at BKK!

seriously, the Thailand unrest thingy really spoilt my mood!

they should stop it when they are fighting for the rights for the poor!

am i right?

if they continue creating chaos over there

tourist will just stop visiting there, the people there can't continue to work or continue with their businesses etc..

hence, the country will be more poor and poorer..

CORRECT?

aiyer..

whatever,

just hoping my daddy will tell me that he will be going tw this end of year

so i will be travelling 3 times this year!

for the tw trip i will be bringing Cheryth along :)

ahh, im so much awaiting for him to say that!

but he's still considering...

alright,

im here to wish Cheryth 16 months old!

will update her milestones on the upcoming post!

stay tune :D

2010-05-12T22:37:00.005+08:00

i have some videos to share with you guys!

if you all didn't know..

Cheryth has start walking on her own last thurs!

she can stamp her feet, take things with both her hands, U turn, reverse a lil, run a lil while walking!

it's so amazing for me which she just know how to walk in a blink!

maybe that day i went to ICA building and she played with some kids which can run like nobody business and yet she couldn't?

then after she reached home she keep walking and walking non stop!

till she is real tired and wouldn't give up.

im happy yet worried

the bad thing for her when she walks is she always get some bump on her head :(

like almost everyday....

SIGH :(

some random pictures to liven up my blog!

2010-05-06T00:55:00.002+08:00

some of the pictures might not in sequence and some are taken as long as month ago.

must enjoy looking at it before i MIA again

and also i seldom upload any photos right :)

by the time i'd upload her photo again she might have grown up so much!

remember i tweeted before about my girl taking out her pants herself?

have took this pic last month after i came back from room and seeing her pant less

she drink her water without wearing her pants...

SHAME SHAME~

that's all!

Cheryth dancing!

2010-05-01T00:46:00.004+08:00

i have so much photos to upload and her walking videos!

but i won't upload today :)

here's the outdated video of hers shaking her bumbum while listening to the music.

p/s: you have to tilt your head while watching it! hhah

15 months old progress

2010-04-28T22:59:00.004+08:00

can say a lot of things now! such as " papa, yeye, daddy, daisy, pepper, mama, mummy, painpain,baobao,mummum, bird, please, take, no more, "zai xi" and shake her finger etc.. not very accurate but clear

able to walk around 10-15 steps without support.

stand alone for few minutes

she can scribble on paper with pen but i gave her those erasable board with those magnet pen instead.

learning to feed herself with bowl and spoon.

can drink from cup and spill a little.

finally not lazy to hold her bottle herself while drinking milk

loves making a mess in the house and purposely push those tiny toys under the sofa! -.-

can climb up the sofa and bed with things below to step on etc.

can nod her head when saying yes and shake her head when saying no
when we asked her to fake cry she will used her both hands rubbing her eyes
when we ask her where pain pain she will show us those scratches which she had tons ago
will shake her bum bum and dance when she heard music
must kiss her when saying good night

i think that's what i can think of now.

she has too much things to note and i might missed some.

her progress should be the same as what of her age now except her gross motor skills is slower than others

she is learning to speak more things now!

she is talking earlier than walking :)

but i can't wait for her to walk independently!

though i know when she learnt to walk my days will be tougher haha =/

anyway,

she had done with her 15months old MMR

this time i went to polyclinic because it's subsidised FREE

and also i don't really like the PD she used to go

very bo chap one!

polyclinic service is also way better than there lor!

i didn't know polyclinic can make appointment one

which i always thought is the long queues and everything that's why i din't bring my girl there before.

BUT

from now i will bring her to polyclinic!

it's nearer , cheaper and the nurses are friendly!

the queues with appointment at the previous clinic and polyclinic doesn't make a HUGE different either..

2010-04-23T23:14:00.005+08:00

sorry for keep delaying my post!

i will continue with my zoo post tmr which cheryth had ruined it yesterday when i did halfway!!

nowadays, im so so tired at night and had been sleeping and waking up early

which is a good sign and i loves this timing!

and what keeps me delaying on posting because..

during the day time i seldom touch my lappy because i have a very itchy hand girl.

and when she is napping i have to do my tasks.

when it's time for her to sleep it will normally be my free time surfing the net or doing my stuffs.

so now my body clock has changed to the normal means i will be DEAD tired during the night.

and this is why i will keep neglecting this blog or even my lappy!

so pardon me alright?

i don't like the feeling to blog just for the sake of people to view but to blog something about my stuffs for myself in this little space of mine.

zoo trip with friends!

2010-04-19T17:56:00.012+08:00

last Saturday,

i went to zoo again!

as this time round it's free!

all thanks to peilin~

i woke up super early de okay?

and the both of them are still sleeping like a log when im already outside of the house!

i thought im always the one who late.

yet when they are late they are much more later than me lor

i still decide to walk from lakeside to han's house with such a hot weather!

Cheryth is so xinfu cause she have a fan and a canopy from her stroller to shield her from the scorching sun

so enjoy being a child!

had breakfast at han's place coffeeshop and we cabbed to the ZOO!

i've been singing " we are going to the zoo" to Cheryth and she seems to excited! hehe

WE ARE OUTSIDE THE ZOO!

we are going to the zoo zoo zoo~
how about you,you,you?
you can come too,too,too~
we are going to the zoo zoo zoo!

we didn't realised zoo actually have scooter for rent till we saw someone riding on it!

i went there last year but didn't see this thing before

we find it so interesting and seems convenient so we rented it!

it's not cheap but remember we don't need to pay for the entrance?

so i think it's worth and most importantly my girl does enjoyed it :)

we took turns to drive Cheryth around

in the first place no ones feels safe for me to drive my girl.

because everyone knows im very accident prone!

i don't have confident to drive her at first so i passed to pei.

i believed she is a safe driver :)

i know the pics are kinda chui.

but i only have this in my cam on them riding scooter with Cheryth!

if you guys not sure what's the above

it's

POLAR BEAR!!

i LOVES polar bears among all the animals in the zoo!

they are so cute don't you think so ? :)

but i didn't managed to get a good pic of it as both are them are frolicking around

and the water is very cloudy

so i only seems like taking the water instead of the bears...

CHEETAHS! the fastest animals on earth

KIDZ WORLD.

forgot that there's such a place for kids and i didn't bring any extra clothes!

had played water with Cheryth and caused me to feel so wet and uncomfortable :(

we saw a very cute orang utan hanging on the tree and suddenly he did this pose for us!

and it posed for very long!!

Cheryth had nose bleeding while we taking a pic with the ah meng.

scare the hell out of me and makes me so panic!

at first i thought she bumped on her nose

as before that she was with han in the scooter and bumped on pei's

but both of them assured me that she didn't knocked on something just got a shock from the jerk which she had cried from it.

and it's impossible for her to bump on her nose because of the height matters?

anyway, i just want to make sure she doesn't she hurt her nose.

because i know nose bleeding may caused by weather.

but to make me feel more relief....

MIL brought her to GP and it's just some nose sensitive.

PHEW~

im damn paranoid over it and think so much of what causing it :(

luckily, there's nothing serious!

if not i will blame myself really...

this is when pei told me her nose bleeds which i thought she was just kidding!

alright, im lazy to elaborate more.

i will just end this post with some pictures..

it took me days to finish this post okay?

i don't know what's happen to blogger and always saved only halfway of my draft!

im so pissed and feel like giving up on posting it.

i am fair!

i will not only post both their uglam pics

now

this is my CHUI pic which pei says my mouth is super ugly here haha!

Cheryth is considered very cooperative that day.

just gets cranky when she's tired.

well it's a very tiring day for me too!

supposed to go for my friend's party but ended up didn't due to some reason.

i've been sleeping like a dead that very day! SHIOK!!

intorlerable.

2010-04-12T02:48:00.002+08:00

Cheryth is so cranky these few days

it must be teething again

keep screaming away when she is not happy

hadn't lose my cool yet but almost flared up.

i only scolded her

but she isn't afraid of me at all!

she is those type that can't be handle in harsh way but softer way.

when you hit her she will purposely do it what you had said no.

while when i talk to her nicely then she will stop.

super naughty right??

i mean when you are already hopping mad, will you still be able to speak up nicely?

IF i were the only one who can't tolerate her temper maybe the problem lies in me

and im short tempered.

but everyone in the house had already complained how naughty she was!

even grandpa whose dearly dotes on her had scolded her too!

because she hit her grandpa while he is asleep... LOL

even my sil had not be even shouted or beaten by my FIL before

so you shall see how tolerance my FIL was and how naughty my girl was right?

hope her cranky days will get away faster

she always get more naughtier when she's teething :(

some random updates!

2010-04-10T01:45:00.003+08:00

shall update my blog with different pictures by recalling some of my memory

so everything might not in sequence

some other day at 4 plus am ,

while her Grandpa going off for work

and she keep wanting her YeYe to carry her but FIL had to go..

so she cried till like this.

this is the first time she did that to her grandpa when he's working.

very pitiful right?

she's still not happy when i carried her to my room

still think of her grandpa,

so she cried again!

BTH her..

such a poor girl :(

but don't get deceived by her!

she always does that to trick me and MIL

so we are very seasoned by it already

sometimes we don't bear to see her this way but after a few mins she will forgotten about everything happened.

so ya, kids are easily to bluff

am i right?

i think last week

when i placed her in playpen,

hubby was in the room to play with her while im outside

and shouted out for me to look at my girl and told me that he don't know what's that mouth are for

and says our lil Cheryth is being so helpful and show him that "it's was a whistle!"

she blew for him but no sound.

then hubby blew out the sound for her.

and she tried again,

still no sound..

so she blow the whistle and scream as if it was from the whistle

kinda sounds alike when i heard from far!

aren't she such a cheeky girl??

LOOK AT HER SO SO NAUGHTY FACE!

i just snatched something from her and she screamed like nobody business!!

i find this pic doesn't looks like her...

my cousin Joel's wedding last Saturday at Mandarin Orchard

she is being so noisy throughout the dinner as she doesn't napped enough on the day

so kind of cranky

and i have to find things keep her entertained.

i put a lil bit of shark fin soup on her bowl to let her play with

and she plays till the soup from sticky type to very watery

some shots at home while we find her looking good with the dress that day

and she give me this pose while i say "pretty girl"

weirdly, my girl only looks good in purple and white but not pink or something

i don't fancy purple colour you see..

yet only that colour she look more girl girl!!

i think both of us and hubby really don't have any photogenic genes.

we always look more ugly in pictures cause we have BIG face and Cheryth has a very high and big forehead

and her smile is super fake de...

so are we ..

this is the reason why i don't usually take pictures of myself and my hubby too

my blog almost all only have Cheryth and maybe some are the dogs. hehe

seriously, i need a change for my camera

i can't take good pictures when Cheryth keep fidgeting around!

shall get a camera that can snap fast enough..

how about semi pro cam?

i like DSLR sharp images,

but too bulky for me.

not getting Nikon's anymore

maybe trying for Canon's as more good reviews for that.

everything must wait till i get all of my things done first.

MIL'S BIRTHDAY POST. 30/03/10

2010-04-09T23:26:00.001+08:00

i have tons of overdue post.

so i will just slowly update ...

this is agar argar cake again from mil's colleagues

very cute right?

but too bad im not ARGAR ARGAR person

while this is 717 trading's durian cake!

hubby got this for mil

addicted to this so much since peilin's bought that for her birthday!

the durian filling is very rich!

if you loves durian you will like this!

although i know the design is ugly LOL

while we singing birthday song

Cheryth thought as if it's was her birthday and she keep clapping and smile at us!

now she is too engrossed on the cake.

GREEDY GIRL!

took not much photos cause me was aiming at the cake too!

like mother like daughter

we are both the greedy ones. :D

some sneak peek of pictures!

2010-04-08T23:21:00.001+08:00

upoload some of the pictures only cause im lazy to use photobucket.

so i used picasa which can only upload 4 pictures at a time.

just some of random sneak preview pictures.

there's more to come!

don't miss my Cheryth too much! :)

Videos for your viewing pleasure!

2010-04-07T01:48:00.003+08:00

LOOK! my girl is so helpful despite her young age!

she used to take the duster and dust the floor only

now she will take that to dust my room door frame like what i always dust my room every corner..

aren't she so lovable when she doesn't show her tantrum? :)

this is what she does when she takes her handkerchief or tissue

sometimes she will wipe her mouth first then started her old habit and wipe the floor and table etc.

i didn't taught her before

maybe she is imitating me again...

her laoma gave her some coins for her coin bank

so i taught her how to put the coin inside

just taught her one time with a few tries and she succeeded!

im so proud of her!

like i said before,

she only learns things fast when she is interested in that thing

while something that is so simple and when she have no interest in it.

she will not learn no matter how much you tried.

very very stubborn girl!

i was wondering whether is she a left or right handed

she seems to know how to use both her hands.

depends on the things she will used it some with left and some with right.

when can i know she is which handed!?

2010-03-27T03:20:00.005+08:00

it's already late i know.

actually im dead tired but yet i can't sleep.

anyway,

i will have tons of chores to do tomorrow like always.

same routine like;

feeding cheryth her morning milk, do the laundry, cook her porridge, feed her some bread or something light then awhile later we took nap together

after she woke up, i feed her porridge awhile later to bathe her

played with her awhile and bring her to nap again.

alright my girl is a super sleeper if she wants to sleep.

she can really sleeps!!

which is good to me too! but sometimes when she's cranky she will stay awake for the whole noon!

and i will be half dead like a zombie with a very foul mood.

then for me,

sometimes i will nap with her too cause i always stay so late at night.

and i don't eat for the whole day until evening time then i will start my breakfast cum lunch and dinner.

around late noon then i will start to clean the house and everything.

i know it's kind of late.

*as i said. i've not much energy left on daytime.

then the list goes on.

like all those normal chores i have to do at home.

i know the schedule of myself is kind of unhealthy.

but can't help.

i really can't sleep at night no matter how tired i was.

unless i have not been sleeping for more than 20 hours then i will start to K.O at night.

so my my dark circles is getting darker or might be permanent is also caused my me :(

i should need to visit a doctor soon right?

by the way,

i need to adjust to normal human's timing before her school starts!

and also,

i need to know more recipes to cook for Cheryth.

im still cooking porridge for her

which is kind of boring for me already.

but she's just getting naughty now

and start to refuse eating.

need to be fast while feeding her before she changes her mind.

we have to take thing to distract her to make her open her mouth!

very naughty right?

my used to be that " good girl" on eating has disappeared

imagine she used to eat everything what puts in her mouth.

the first time i cooked her porridge is damn tasteless she still can finished it!

and every time we fed her porridge we just needed 5mins!!

everyone is saying her being so good girl makes me feel so proud okay??

BUT NOW??

i need to take at least 15 mins and wasted a lot of energy to distract her.

then she spits out i have to clean it and feed her again.

not that she is sian of the foods.

is almost all foods we feed her for now she will be like this.

MUST DISTRACT!

for now,

porridge is the best choice.

can feed her fast

put in her mouth and swallowed.

when she spits out just clean away which is easier than those noodles and rice?

but still i want to try new stuffs for her cause im really find it bored cooking the same old things , really

FYI,

i have cooked macaroni soup for her before.

at first she likes it then she did the same things again.

i've cooked tomatoes pasta for her and she hate the taste for sourish and spit it out without even swallow it.

for rice,

she eat for the first few mouth then refused to open her mouth .

so i gave up and cook the same old things again.

!!!!

she turns to a very picky person right!!?

very angry you know!!!

grrrrr....

at first, i wondering maybe she doesn't like my cooking

(but i got taste what i cook one hor! it's not that bad okay?)

then i feed her those ah ma's cook one.

still the same!

so the problem doesn't lies in me..

even i feed her outside we need to give her an empty bowl and spoon to play with...

really bth.

but i still love her as always.

no matter how infuriated i was.

she's still my dearly lovely..

hmmm....

maybe i will try kway teow soup!

which i fed her from outside before and she is quite okay with it!

i wonder how she's at home eating that?

SIGH!

overdue photos from 1st week march onwards.

2010-03-24T01:25:00.002+08:00

tried using picasa uploader to blog the images.

though it's faster but i don't know why it's still only can upload 5 each.

can i upload more than 5 in one go?

anyone knows?

tried convert the walker to supporter for her to walk.

and it's works! it's really makes her more confident then using the fisherprice one lor

maybe this one is more stable?

btw, this is super overdue pictures!

trying using her leg to move the mat closer..

i bully her by putting her to support her back on the mirror cupboard door

cause she very afraid to stand without any support infront.

LOOK at her pathetic face yet im laughing at her.

sucha bad mummy right?

after weeks,

she is more confidence using her back to support on something!

this pics are the most recent one which i took it on saturday?

act pretty when we say pretty girl..

i have more photos but i don't think i will upload it all.

i have finally passed my FTT on my second attempt which i dragged for quite long which i've been absent from one test.

i will take my PDL after my trip and find an instructor to learn driving maybe once every week or two weeks.

hopefully can get my licence within 2 years before my FTT expires.

and i musn't be lazy! if not i sure take longer than that!

i don't anticipate in drving a car though.

im hoping to get one as an achievement, at least it will be convenient if i have a licence.

if i have enough budget,

i wish to get my licence within 6-9 months!

i think i need more motivation to live up my half dead blog!

Cheryth 14th months old.

2010-03-20T15:26:00.004+08:00

able to walk 1-2 steps towards me when i let go off her hand. still afraid of walking but was okay if we hold her hands but she tip toed

new words " taketake", "daiee" aka calling daisy, "baobao" "baba" aka byebye

when she kisses us she will make the sound " hmmm"

know how to slide iphone screen with her finger which i only taught her once..

know where to point " ear, nose, mouth and eyes", pat me when i says "where's mummy?"

no more creeping she changed her crawling style with her knee.

will keep back her stuffs when we asked her to do so.

when she soiled her diapers, she will pull up her clothes, point to us and look below.

she is so noisy now! perhaps she is learning to talk more.

can no longer place her at her highchair alone! she will get up from it unless with cushion

can get down from bed, sofa and while standing

know how to stack up the ring in the cone already!

imitate eating with her hand and gave it to us which we must pretend we are munching on it too

know which button to open the window in the car. and she always does it okay!

knocked at the door when she wants to enter the room.

using her hankerchief to imitate us wiping since last month? she will wipe everywhere or take the duster and sweep the floor.

she is having good memory now. shouldn't underestimate like she is a baby anymore..

should accept tha fact that she is changing so much everyday!

now she only learn thing fast like we only need to teach her once.. provided the thing she's learning must seems to be interesting to her.

if not even how much you tried she still refused to learn like calling me mummy? :(

i think " daddy","pepper" "daisy" is much more harder then calling me mummy lor!

so not fair!

2010-03-20T09:23:00.003+08:00

now then i realised i have not been blogging for quite sometimes

think ever since hubby snatched my lappie from me EVERY night that i can't use it

even if i use it i won't feel like blogging.

come to think of it im quite angry which i hadn't be touching mine lappie for sometimes!

shall take back from him alr.

imagine our house have three comp but he just love to take mine.

will try to update with pictures tonight.

shouldn't make my my laziness to get accumulated more....

sometimes, i just feel like giving up blogging.

2010-03-18T00:50:00.001+08:00

have removed my tagboard which i don't think there's a need?

people can just leave me message on my comment.

kind of dislike with the advertisement.

will be back blogging SOON....

2010-03-12T02:32:00.004+08:00

wanted to post a photo post but im lazy to upload again.

recently, Cheryth had been such a disgusting girl!

i really had no idea where had she learnt from

but she know how to dig her nose!

GOSH!

i only thought those kids turning two or went to school will then started to pick up those bad habits from there?

and i don't think any members in the house does that infront of her either.

i don't know how she does that.

now she know how to say "byebye" and wave already!

whenever she listened a phonecall from hubby or mil ,when they says byebye she will wave and say "baba"

darling might started to learn walking already just that she don't have the courage or ready to stand alone.

but when we just held her hands lightly she can really walk but tiptoes?

hopes she don't tiptoes when she walk in the future..

for the past few nights my girl will end up crying and scream while asleep.

which happened lately yet i felt so helpless!

i really dont know what had happened

whether she is having nightmare or something had frightened her.

im really worried but she is fine during the day.

hopefully tonight she can sleep peacefully throughout.

does anyone had experienced the same problems like me before?

im wondering does the "jing fong san" really helps?

lifeless

2010-03-09T11:44:00.002+08:00

i assume im suffering from insomnia again.

which causes my anger to burst anytime and anywhere

my mood hasn't been good recently...

im really very lethargic during the day and no matter how tired i was at the night

but just when im lying on my bed i can't get to sleep!

it's have been more than a week alr.

totally very "xinku" okay?

just like last night i've already tried hard to sleep at 2-3am?

then someone from my house came back around 5 plus and my dog's barking waked me up!

so tadah,

i can't get back to sleep again and it takes more then an hour to feel tired .

this whole week i only able to sleep at around 5plus am?

and imagine have to look after my girl which you can ask all the SAHM what time we MUST have to wake up?

i flared up at my hubby yesterday

maybe mood wasn't good due to lack of sleep.

im kind of fed up on clearing up the mess that's not created by me.

seriously, who likes it right?

im not always can be nice which sometimes i can be mean too.

that's just me..

so i scolded hubby due to this issue cause he is one of them.

nah, not going to clear all the shits that's not by me.

enough is enough.

im not a maid

as a mother, my duty is to take all my responsibility to take care of my child

as a wife, my duty at home is to clear his so called "shits" i can thank god if he don't mess the house when he's at home

as for house chores i did it because i have a part to stay so i mind the cleanliness as what it's called HOME!

BUT people have to know.

everyone in the house have to play a part

whether or not it's minor or major chores.

it's not only ah ma or my job but everyone?

now as for me,

i supposed i have already done my job.

i think what's enough is enough.

i will stop on doing things that's not a part on my duty.

hopefully our 5 year plan still valid.

hope we will get a house by that time.

not that im having conflicts with anyone in the house.

im still enjoying staying with them but i preferred having my own nest.

misunderstanding living which each other can only avoid for time being but not forever.

which i don't wish the day will come any sooner.

hates humid weather!

2010-03-07T02:27:00.006+08:00

seriously no one will like the current weather in sg now.

it's causes people to get thirsty, falling sick and heat stroke?

and i bathed more in this type of weather.

i just can't tolerate for not bathing a single day which sometimes i wonder how can i survived during my confinement period?

those who have confinement now please take care....

still remember i keep sneaking to bathe while they are all asleep?

at night somemore! HAHAH

i know that will put my health at risk

who cares? i just can't stand the smell of sweat and the fragrance of not washing hair for many days!

im the one who suffers in the end right.

but that will be in few years later.

so i will just blame myself again for being stubborn next time

i wonder why angmohs can bathe lor?

seriously NOT FAIR! right?

i really salute those who can survive on not bathing

especially living in this type of weather like sg?

i mean won't the "thing"stinks like hell?

if you get what i mean.

which is .....

this weather also causes my girl to have heat rash

i only found out when she scratch her head!

which i find it cute at the way she scratches her head hahaha

Oh,

Cheryth do perspire a lot which me and hubby don't?

if she don't get any fan blowing on her for few mins she will just perspire like she just got out from bathing!

im not exaggerating but she belongs to those type that perspire like nobody business.

so this type of weather she will suffers

hope the weather will get cooler in few days time!

i have already registered toddler class for Cheryth which will commence on July!

twice per week and i will be accompany her throughout the lesson :)

i've confirmed going to BKK for short getaway on 30th Jul with sis and her friends!

staying there for 4d3n.

will be leaving without hubby :(

anyway,

i have to self control for not spending on anything for now!

so no shopping and saves for the trip!

2010-03-05T00:46:00.001+08:00

im the most failure mum..

i caused Cheryth bumped her head again

and this time is much more serious :(

very big and swollen......

:(

2010-03-01T23:03:00.002+08:00

Cheryth is not feeling well again

but only fever this time.

hopefully not serious and she will get well soon

no runny nose or cough and her poo was alright too.

just that she have one ulcer on her gum

which i hope the fever is caused by teething and nothing else.

well, hope she is just fine and back to the naughty Cheryth tomorrow!

as for my getaway,

the plan with my friends was cancelled.

we are not going bkk together already :(

because not all can go

so now im planning with hubby, sis and her friends

hope sis boyfriend can go too!

so my hubby have a companion hehe

if you ask why dont i just go with hubby alone.

my answer will be: not safe for both of us at this foreign place, we doesn't know their language, and this type of place for shopping will be the more the merrier!

planned to go on this july or first week of august!

hopefully this trip can be confirmed soon..

Happy Chinese New Year!

2010-02-27T22:47:00.003+08:00

it will be "yuan xiao jie" tmr

but im now posting the first few days of chinese new year that i've spent hahaa!

FIRST DAY.

the eve of chinese new year can kills me

after cleaning the house and everything was so tiring!

but of course im not missing the reunion dinner which is steamboat!

woke up at 9am to prepare all the stuffs,

supposed to leave house at 11am

but just for my make up and my hair i already spent 1 hour for it.

hates my fringe that day which looks super like grass.

in fact i hate my fringe this time.

which i dont know why and im not happy about it

i still preferred the one that i trimmed then this lor!

Cheryth is all ready to go out with her cute cheongsam!

but have to take a pictures with grandparents as they will be leaving first!

a family pic before with are out too!

me with my red lacey cheongsam.

we went to my parents house to bainian first

then dad's drives us to my grandma's house

first time giving angbao rather then recieving it was a new experience!

and a bit sad at the same time :(

cause im giving away money this time but not receiving it when im just 20..

a snapshot with sis!

didn't take much photos cause im busy tending cheryth

stayed at there awhile and then back home .

cause most of my relatives has went out already.

me and darling,

hates my grassy fringe :(

rested awhile and then hubby's relatives came to our house bainian and steamboat

while evening cheryth went off with my parents to my relatives chalet

while me and hubby went out at night to meet sis, her bf and bro for k session

hubby stayed awhile and went back for MJ session

DAY2

went to hubby's side relatives house to bainian

our house having tomyam steamboat for dinner, MJ session and friends coming at night

K session again but with yvonne alone this time

DAY3

hubby started working,

while me and cheryth went to my Da Jiu house bainian

stayed awhile only less than an hour

then back home

dad at first says evening he wanted to bring cheryth to kids amaze at safra

but after that cancelled and we went to jp fairprice for some shopping

and home to have steamboat again..

i have continuously ate 5 days steamboat which is kind of sick

but i enjoyed eating the tomyam's one haha!

her cheongsam that i got from motherhood forum

supposed to wear it on day 2.

but after i washed it decided to let her wear it on day 3 since i find it a waste if she dont wear it now which she will outgrew it next year.

random feb photos (excluded CNY)

2010-02-27T22:09:00.002+08:00

i will upload all the random pics on feb here

as for the CNY i will post it at the next.

still remember 1st feb 10 was our 6th annniversary together?

that day we went out to buy cny clothes and cheryth was with us initially then left with MIL after she knocked off from work

so here are the photos taken that day,

she is just so engrossed with the water!

till now she still likes water a lot.

get super excited when she sees it.

we went to bugis street that day to get some shorts for myself.

when we went up to the 2nd storey,

there's a plushie shop that hubby didn't even noticed

but that caught cheryth eyes and pointed there and telling us that she wants to go there haha.

so hubby have no choice but to bring her there.

bought her this winnie which she chose herself out of so many toys.

this winnie was like her baby now,

she will kissed and hugged him when she likes to.

her hair was still long in this picture!

her brought her for hair trimming at MASA before cny

initially was to cut her tail only

but the hairdresser still trimmed it

wasn't get used to it at first

but now i find it quite nice heh

BEFORE

AFTER

one morning which i forgot which day,

i placed her on highchair and went to my room and get some things.

but when i come out

this is what i saw!

she is shaking her legs!

super chor lor right?

haha

i took down a video of it too!

will upload it someday

placed her on my headboard and she likes it a lot!

when i carry her down she was throwing her tantrum again...

so "gei kiang" of me.....

after so many months,

ive finally decided to eat this cupnoodles that szehan got for me from HK few months ago

was hungry at the middle of night so i asked hubby to take out the cupnoodles and cook it since it's gonna expired

did you see the kitty?

very cute right?

that's why i wanted to take this noodle pictures down!!

though im not a HK lovers

but still i find it too cute to eat

this pork one nothing special

just plain cupnoodles without the cartoons

though i find it too cute to eat but i still ate it!

it's not really tastes nice for that kitty.

but still it's filled my stomach! hehe

overdue jan photos!

2010-02-27T21:50:00.002+08:00

im slow i know.

it's already going end of feb yet now then i upload the jan photos!

have been a month since i post photos right?

i know you all miss my cheryth!

not to disappoint you guys again.

so here it goes,

let her tried on this cheongsam out for fun

but we find it this is so cute!

it's passed down by my cousin's

first day of new year can't wear old clothes.

so we decided to let her wear this on day 3 of new year

but she dirtied the one she should wear on day 2

so she wore this!

didn't managed to take pic on day 2.

this is taken on jan FYI,

thanks peilin for the clothes she got for us from BKK!

this couple tee is so cute right :)

sailor dress for cheryth's

will upload feb photos on the next post!

thanks for the patience~

CHERYTH 13TH MONTHS OLD!

2010-02-20T21:26:00.007+08:00

the feeding routine is still as usual, but she started to take rice somtimes to replace porridge.

started to brush her teeth with toothpaste! she now has 4 and 1/2 of teeth. the 5th one only a quarter came out.

still afraid to walk! when we asked her to stand and take a thing from us she will think of how to get down and crawl to us instead of walking to us
will kiss her plushie and hugged with a pat when we asked her to do so.

can call "daddy" as "daddi or daddad" still doesn't know how to say mummy yet :(

she will "boo" at the dogs and scold them with her language when i scolded my dogs

very daring! nothing she seems to be afraid other than falling and sudden loud noises.

rejecting to take pictures now

will point at things she wanted us to take or go

play peek a boo with us by hiding her face then "bah" with us or cover her eyes and open and says "bah" again.

will dance when there's a music she likes! that time MIL says she move left and right open and close her mouth wondering whether she learning to sing?

when she know she was wrong when i scolding her "naughty girl" she will pouts and "TEH". if i scold again she started to cry and lean over me and kiss me. *melts my heart*

she learnt a lot a lot of new things like those babies at her age which i can't possibly note it all out! very very amazing to see her grown up that much!

she getting more and more cheekier everyday.

really very naughty and cunning!

no one seems to believe how naughty she was till they saw her themselves.

hopefully she can behave herself when she starts school on july?

2010-02-19T15:47:00.003+08:00

alright im back to my comp again.

it had been days since new year i didn't touch my lappie at all!

house has been crowded for the past few days.

had been eating steamboat for 5 days till im kind of sick!

and how can i not fat when i binge on tidbits and steamboat??

i have bulging tummy which is super huge k!

Cheryth have wore cheongsam from day one to day three.

actually i didn't manage to take much photos cause now my girl seems to hate looking at the camera.

always turn away while i tried to capture which was so frustrating!

will blog about chinese new year after i upload some photos

as for now, my hubby gonna use it already.

so have to stop!

tata~

2010-02-12T00:24:00.003+08:00

doesn't want to disappoint you guys again by visiting my blog yet ended up i didn't post anything on it.

BUT

im busy and tired this few days!

don't have much time to spare for this space

when i have the free time i wouldn't feel like blogging but doing other stuffs!

free time seems to be so precious to me alright.

this is not a photo post again.

but im sure when the next time i post my girl pic.

she sure has grown up so much :)

i doubt i can blog before chinese new year alr

cause tomorrow onwards i have MORE activities for me

so no TIME!

anyway,

cheers people!

HAVE A PROSPEROUS LUNAR NEW YEAR

hope more money rolling into everyone's pocket!

"fa fa fa"!

:)

need a short getaway!

2010-02-08T16:37:00.001+08:00

im planning to go BKK by this year!

either with my gfs or my hubby.

depends if hubby can get leave or not

hopefully i can save up all my money by this mid year!

i will shop like mad crazy over there if i have the chance!

hohoho :)

so i will shop lesser after new year or even stop it.

no more clothes for now

but there will be tons of it after i came back from BKK lor!

all is rightfully mine!

hehe

2010-02-07T01:32:00.003+08:00

i know i have stopped blogging again

so pardon me k!

i have photos inside the cam still not yet upload to the comp

and i have photos inside the comp that haven't upload here!

so if i happen to upload photos it's all kind of outdated one!

of course the pics are all cheryth's

i seldom take photo of mine cause i dont really fancy in cam whoring myself lo!

not photogenic :(

but sometimes if i have the mood i would HAHA!

contradicting right?

im so looking forward to chinese new year next week!

although this year will be different cause will be giving angbaos instead of receiving it

but last year i was doing confinement still can avoid but not this year.

had not been feeling well again this few days

having severe backache, running nose and sore throat.

today my back is so ache that i need to rest while walking a few steps!

it must be lying down for too long during facial!

i usually sleep on the side while sleeping so i will super not get use to lying down face up!

my face is all swollen now :(

didn't know facial was so so so much pain one!

as it was my first time doing it

but i still act brave that i tell them it's bearable while i was screaming inside lor!

LOL

my threshold of pain on my face is lower than other part of my body.

i cant stand people squeezing my face one okay!

but better than giving birth of course!

that was the worst pain ever in my life i have experienced

hopefully my face and fringe will be "swee swee" in time for chinese new year

blog for the sake of blogging.

2010-02-04T02:35:00.006+08:00

alright just get random a bit

i've already gotten my cny clothes!

thanks mum for sponsoring me a cheongsam on sunday

it's super RED!

not that gorgeous but i like the lace.

can't find any other nicer in cheap price :(

and for day 2, i gotten myself a dress from online!

still not shopped enough yet.

i need more clothings!

but kind of broke again haha!

had some shopping spree with hubby on mon.

it's our 6th anniversary together!

part of my youth is with him lo :)

gotten myself a pair of shorts, belt and a top from bugis street.

those shorts and cheap top is for my casual wear.

a pair of heels from charles and keith .

i was not in a mood to shop slowly that day as i was dead tired!

feet was aching like hell and i went to buy a flats to wear so here i spent the money again~

hubby got himself 3 tops, 2 bermudas and a jeans.

we both spent around 400 plus that day and half of it was spent all on himself.

hubby only will spend like this on chinese new year!

if weren't the sake of saving,

i might spend even more that day!

but i must control lah.

since im all the while staying at home.

having so much clothes isn't useful anyway right?

p/s: PLEASE HELP ME CLICK ON MY ADS IF THERE'S ANY! THANKS MANY :D!

CHALET DAY 2: family day!

2010-01-25T18:03:00.005+08:00

since i have time now and Cheryth is out with her grandma

then i shall blog!

shouldn't waste this type of precious time right?

seldom have so much free time on day :)

second day

not much people stayed over at the chalet

only hubby's paternal grandma, uncle, some of my SIL friends and of course US!

my sis and her friends supposed to stay over too.

but because the rooms are small and nothing to do over there so they dropped their idea

Cheryth is opening her present in the morning after our breakfast!

we had planned to go for a swim after the pool maintenance

and we took a nap first since everyone is drop dead tired!

while we woke up around noon time,

the weather was kind of crazy!

it's raining on and off like sometimes the sun is so shine yet a few minutes later the dark clouds was covering the sun and here comes the rain! it's goes on and on within an hour i think .

it only stopped till a sudden huge downpour that only lasts for 10 minutes and the pool has to call off for closing!

when the sun started to shine again, we quickly went out of the bungalow and headed to the pool!

but it's still closed till 15 minutes later.

so we brought Cheryth to the playroom!

she enjoyed playing there so much!

but she was afraid of coming down from the slide

forgot to take the video on the process of her coming down.

when we trying for the next for video, she was reluctant to come down already :(

it's swimming time!

shan't elaborate already.

im super lazy.

cause a picture can speaks a thousand words :)

if you realised, she has changed her swimsuit!

mil got it for her from fairprice xtra the very last min.

i find it quite pretty!

as i didn't know ntuc will have those nice swimsuit! haha

evening time we have BBQ again.

had lots of leftover foods for the day before.

more random pics!

PIL and Cheryth went back first then we checked out ourselves the next day :)

Cheryth 12 months old progress.

2010-01-25T00:48:00.005+08:00

im lazy of posting the chalet day 2 post

so here im gonna update her 12 months old progress instead!

CHERYTH'S 12TH MONTHS OLD.

able to pull herself up from sitting/lying down position by holding on support

let out her frustration by biting/pinching us, scratching on something like tables and face etc and struggle towards her back. SUPER naughty!

when walk past temple or altar she will do the "baibai". (nobody taught her that at all)

will point at the things on what she wants (eg. to eat that certain things or to play at the certain things)

in progress of learning to stand without support for long she doesn't have the courage to learn to walk

loves to imitates a lot of things from us which she learnt it so fast!

know how to call us but still not clear know how to shake her grandpa/daddy body when she's waking them up

act shy and lean on our shoulder when outsider is playing or talking with her

able to differentiate our real gaigai or fake gaigai. if we wear home clothes and say byebye she wont be bothered unless we wear going out clothes or taking a bag then she will scream!

very vain nowadays

know how to cry for help when she get scolded, she will scream very loud if someone coming towards her for help and softly or stopped if we dont.

know how to flag cab/buses when she saw them and know how to take any card and tap here and there

pro at digging wallet!

will do the "ORH HOR" sign when we dropped our things or she get scolded

DAY 1: Cheryth birthday party!

2010-01-22T22:03:00.006+08:00

first day.

we reached NSRCC at 1.30pm and the housekeeping still not yet ready as the check in time is at 2pm

so we place our food stuffs in the fridge first and off to changi village for brunch as we are super hungry!

back to the place at around 3 plus and prepare the decorations and blow up that pooh's balloons.

i find it super wasteful to used that balloons to hang up for decorations lor!

heartpain! we burst 2 balloons before all the decors are done!

my sis and her bf helped me collecting the cake from bakerzin

this what my sis got for Cheryth when they reached..

A BIG POOH HELIUM BALLOON!

a buddy for cheryth

so cute right?

Cheryth is super hyper that day which she doesn't want to nap at all!

she was in a very very good mood that day which we hardly can see her like that without napping

neogarden's buffet reached before 5pm

and the guest crowd started coming in slowly..

i've changed her with a pretty baby pooh dress for her party!

started bbq at 6pm

and the guest are all here by 7.

the beautiful cake are from bakerzin kids

very pretty but it was kind of disappointing!

it's too too sweet that everyone is complaining!

aren't bakerzin cake should be nice right?

but those with sweet tooth likes the cake though.

while the brown cake beside the bee's cake was from mil's colleague that got from Bangawan Solo

coffee flavoured cake which most of the people preferred that!

aww,

i DIDN'T managed to take any pics with my friends and my sis friends!

my apologies :(

anyway, thanks everyone who had came to my girl's birthday!

really appreciated a lot!

and of course not forgetting the wonderful gifts and angbaos!

after the party..

Cheryth is still energetic as ever!

the pics will show how happy she was!

all the pressie..

the guestbook i made.

not very nice cause i did it on very last min!

only got the full materials on sat!

very rush i know.

not much guest signing it which i've expected.

and i didn't invite much people too.

at first i just want a page of paper for people to sign.

but i got an extra paper

so i decided to anyhow decorate and paste Cheryth's pictures

that's all the photo i've left

cause i don't developed much of her photo

all are in my comp!

will post about day 2 maybe tomorrow?

and i have videos to upload too!

but that have to wait..

p/s: super wasted for that balloons lah! after the party have to throw away... my money has gone down the drain....

CHERYTH TURNS ONE!

2010-01-20T00:00:00.003+08:00

HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY TO MY CHERYTH!

i have been a mama for one year which im so proud of

will be bringing her out later to celebrate her actual ones.

loved her more than ever :)

her 12th month progress, birthday post and pictures will be coming up soon.

im so so so shag to blog today.

sorry guys!

2010-01-15T04:08:00.002+08:00

im still awake as i just finished watching my drama

can't wait for the next episode to be out!

i will try to upload photo by sat

after that i will be away for my girl's birthday chalet

me seriously needs a haircut to save my that damn fringe.

which is so horrible!

though now is better than before

but still need some help from professional

chinese new year will be arriving in a month time

will be getting clothes from F21 online.

too lazy to shop for clothing alone which my hubby definitely not free to shop with me.

and all my friends are busy when im free and i will be busy when they are free.

so sad right?

2010-01-13T14:40:00.002+08:00

will try to upload some photos later

has been chasing "hi my sweetheart"drama as recommended by most people!

im super busy again haha!

so check back here for photos alright! :)

2010-01-13T01:43:00.002+08:00

thanks god!

Cheryth is fine!

she's just heaty after recovering from her fever that causes her ulcers and swollen gums.

GP says she just had to finish her antibiotics and it will takes few days to recover.

hopefully by this sunday!

if not she can't get to play much over there

im so excited!

it's just 4 days away

i still yet get ready on her stuffs for her guestbook

decided not to make a scrapbook for her

not sure if i've done one whether anyone will see it and most importantly i have not enough time!

i will do one for her keepsake some other days.

2010-01-12T14:40:00.003+08:00

Cheryth has recovered from her fever but no rashes as what the doc says.

BUT now she has ulcers in her mouth :(

im afraid it's HFMD.

gonna bring her to the GP later at evening.

he only be around at that time.

her birthday celebration is this Sunday

hopefully, she can get well by then to enjoy her big day!

*fingers crossed"*

hopes she is alright.

2010-01-10T15:49:00.003+08:00

might be going st james this wed!

my virgin trip to there!

though i don't really fancy this type of place.

but at least going there can makes me forgets my down-ess haha!

2010-01-10T15:12:00.003+08:00

i can be so irresponsible like you and leave everything behind.

im already no longer have the energy to think for whose sake

i only think of what is the best for it.

i don't want things to turn out like this and you were the one who wants things turn out this way.

life is like this.

so UNFAIR.

the consequences of being selfish in the end,

you can't get something complete in return.

getting perfection ways you need the will to get it.

reap what you sow.

i already given in what i really can

my patience has limits.

don't force me to the end of the corner :)

MOODY.

2010-01-09T01:16:00.005+08:00

today is totally not my day!

it's sucks balls.

my PMS is getting serious

and things for me today didn't makes me happy either!

what spoils my day first is also due to the damn balloons that costs me the total damage of 45 bucks for just pathetic 30 pieces unblown rubber balloons with pooh's prints on it.

it's does not comes with any helium or whatever stick FYI!

i admit im seriously can't get over it!

i get all the deco's stuffs around 6-7 packets is already 7o plus bucks!

NOT WORTH AT ALL~ for that BALLOONS!

i rather take it to buy toys for my girl i think is much much better.

you will wonder why i still bought it right?

i only knew it after i paid.

as having serious STM after giving birth

i thought i got some big items that cost me so much

so when i left the shop and i only realised i get so little small stuffs!

after figuring so much then my SIL told me that it's 15 bucks per packet for that pathetic thingy

WHATEVER~ i already gotten it so no use for whining over it for so much.

secondly, is my damn menses.

i don't know why this menses totally spoilt my day throughout!

no appetite, no energy to shop or do any stuffs.

but i think my hubby is the happiest guy on earth today

because he've gotten his LV damier wallet.

thirdly, is because im bad mood yet my husband is not right beside me!

and i wonder where the hell is he now.

don't even want to bother about calling him again.

making me feel more annoyed only

seriously, why he doesn't know how i feels?

it's always like that one you see!

i'm so getting used to it yet still feeling damn pissed at times.

i need some time alone.

or to chill out with my dear friends.

but all of them are so busy :(

and if im out alone my heart is always with my girl's

i need to keep myself busy till im dead tired at the end of the day so that i can sleep early everyday.

but this is the resolution i made this year that will turn out to be a disappointment.

2010-01-09T00:02:00.000+08:00

thanks people~

i am fine now :)

have to stop the cold war as i don't think it's healthy not talking for long right?

i agreed on what mil told me before

as a married person we shouldn't not talk for too long cause that will affect our relationship more.

i think it's true.

have to be more sensible as a married person.

im no longer the carefree mum's daughter now

have to think a lot before i react on something.

i need time to change :)

need time to adapt the living lifestyle staying under one roof and everything etc.

misunderstanding cant be avoid sometimes.

hopefully and of course is better to have a own house!

planning to move out around 4-5 years time if we are able to.

but i think if we really get to have a own house last year

i think my r/s with husband will be much more worst!

we are not mature enough when we just married and being an ignorant mum with a baby

i can't really thought of the consequences!

not that we are VERY mature now but at least better than before.

taking care a child without help sure will get into depression easier.

and i don't think quarrels will be avoidable that time right?

i mean who have the mood to talk nicely if you are fed up or something?

and people please don't say taking a child alone is easy for a mum.

much saying a new mum without any help from anyone!

so dont judge unless you are one yourself kay?

but for me im fortunate enought to have helping hands to handle my girl for me

if not i might really commit suicide!

alright just joking on the suicide part :)

anyway, im already passed the hell times almost 1 year already.

so for now i dont really want another kid.

it's send chills down to me whenever i thinking of it.

now i just have to give my care and love to my only child :)

next week onwards will be a busy week for me!

hope i can get Cheryth's scrapbook done by her birthday celebration!

will be getting materials on monday with my gfs.

forget to mention..

girl is down with viral infection as what the doc says on wed.

having high fever that time :(

GP says will expect her to have rashes after 3 days..

she has lost her chubby cheeks within 1 day without having any appetite.

my poor lil girl.

she is getting well now and the rashes have yet to appear

hopefully she dont get it..

depressed feelings.

2010-01-07T02:14:00.002+08:00

super fed up with my husband..

nearly left the house on impluse

if weren't because my mind is all filled with Cheryth

if weren't because she needs me now as she is down with sick again.

if weren't because the sake of her..

i would really leave the house just now.

i went out just now and ponders just so many of things.....

i only wished that you can understand my thoughts.

my little cheeky

2010-01-06T02:20:00.003+08:00

been staying at home this two days doing the same old routine as usual

i dont know why i feel tired when going out but staying at home was boring

kind of hesitating when thinking of bringing my little naughty out

as i said she is little naughty and she getting more and more misbehaving now.

she has grown so much

and my used to be so angelic Cheryth has gone..

LAUGH OUT LOUD.....

she USED to be so behaving and quiet when outside.

i think most people can prove that for me right?

but now she no longer like that!

she wants us to carry then she will be good, refused to sit on her pram, will scream when we sitted/stayed at a place for too long and lastly, she can't be tired when she's outside!

super hot tempered..

my back and arms will break if i carried her all the way whe we are outside

so how can i bring her out alone?

she learnt quite much of things recently,

will point her index finger and shake and will "ahhhhh" when we says " orh hor" or when we scolds her after she disturbed us.

makes pouting mouth face when we asked her to make "pig pig face"

point at herself when we says " where's Cheryth?"

will point at the place where she hurt herself when we asked her " where pain pain?"

will bites when i say "bite bite"

really understand lots of stuffs already.

very smart and learn things very fast.

kids nowadays are really so clever!

just that her physical learning is slower than other's

like crawling, standing, walking etc..

she's turning one in 2 weeks time!

soon she will have to attend preschool lesson.

i think im such a failure...

didn't really find much schools for her.

i am too nervous for the day to come.

kinda worried about it too.

cause you never know how she is doing there unless im with her.

i want her to have the best education than like us

i couldn't teach her the best

i have nothing not like a degree holder or something not even a diploma im holding :(

dont want her to be like me!

SIGH. i always been worrying too much when comes to my daughter

2010 updates!

2010-01-04T01:52:00.003+08:00

been going out these few days

im tired out of it already

i will start my post with new year eve first but no pictures!

went to watch bodyguard and assassin with my in laws and cheryth at the cathay

super regret watching it.

not that the show is not good.

but i barely watched for more than 15 mins i think?

all because my dear girl is super naughty!

she can't behaved there.

so i have to brought her outside and make her sleep as she gets cranky when she's tired!

but who knows?

she refused to sleep throughout the whole movie timing okay?

i have to handle her like a mad woman outside the cinema LOL!

and i get bitten all on my right arm BY her

she has learnt how to bit people already!

i have quite a no. of bruises on my arm!

super pain! no joke seriously!

gosh! she is super naughty! getting more and more naughtier day by day!

i dont think many girls is as naughty as her!

was supposed to watch avatar the next day

but i surrendered!

once bitten twice shy

haha!

by the way i have the most boring new year eve i ever had!

staying at home will be better!

after the movie left Cheryth with my in laws

and i went to hilton to meet yvonne

was thinking of counting down with her.

but she is waiting for her friends there

so i waited with her for an hour? waiting for someone i dont know!!

the worst thing was....

after the waiting, i thought they will join the crowd for countdown there at least.

as it's already 1145 by the time!

and you know what?

they all the way went underground from wheelock to ion

and trained back home!!

how fun is it?

i spent my new year countdown at train staion.

im super pissed can!

I WILL NEVER EVER SPEND IT LIKE THAT AGAIN!

2010 new year day!

stayed at home alone on the noon and have dinner with my parents after that.

did nothing much but at least i have a companion!

family dinner with family is always enjoyable :)

Saturday 2nd jan Yvonne's advanced 21st birthday!

she held it at her house with buffet.

was super crowded and stuffy there!

didn't stayed there for long just about an hour?

then we left for mj session at ql's place as my friend's wants to play!

yet again .. i LOST :(

i'm freaking broke this month again!

bills, pressie etc..

PLEASE CLICK ON MY ADS FOR ME TO GET SOME EARNINGS!

i have so much things to buy for upcoming chinese new year!

HAVE to give angbaos! angbaos and angbaos!

Sunday

my uncle's birthday!

had dinner at hometeam NS restaurant!

super scrumptious meals!

i've been eating so much good foods nowadays!

im feeling so fat now!

my tummy is exploding!!!

HAPPY 2010!

2010-01-01T14:15:00.003+08:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE!

HOPE THIS YEAR WILL BE A VERY GOOD YEAR FOR EVERYONE!

though 2009 is a very fulfilling year for me but i hope 2010 is much better!

im from a ignorant mother to a mother who able to take care of my girl now.

it had been a year!

im seriously contented with my life.

i have best-est families ever and a pretty yet naughty girl

though our financials are quite tight but still contented.

what's more i can asked for right?

resolutions for this year will be

save more money or i able earn more money to get life better
get Cheryth a good school!
less quarrels with hubby
be a better mum
buy gifts for my loved ones!
control my damn temper
discipline Cheryth not to be so naughty!
sleep earlier every day!

i don't have much but i hope i can fulfill all!

how about yours? :)

2009-12-31T01:29:00.003+08:00

EVERYTHING JUST PISSES ME OFF!!

am in no good mood today and now!

first resolution for next year i HOPE that no one pisses me with the same thing again.

it's not very good to be in very very very bad mood on the LAST day of the year.

Boxing Day!

2009-12-30T15:04:00.004+08:00

went to hubby's aunt new place for post christmas gathering

had to wake up freaking at 6 3o am when i only slept at 4am!

we had to get up early to meet fil at kkh first as he had to do some delivery

first time went to kkh!

very big still have macdonald some more!

but i doubt i will deliver there if i have a second child

heard about bad services of the nurses.

i rather go back to my previous hosp!

food tastes good and nice nurses there too!

we had breakfast at glory's then to aunt's place

i like the environment there!

very breezy and quiet.

most importantly the apartment only have 33 units

not crowded

so the pool and everything very clean!

just that the house inside kinda small?

the rooms are too crampy for me.

BTW

Cheryth had her very first swim in pool there too!

she's not really afraid when she's in the pool in fact she loves it with the kids!

Cheryth with her Carlin "aunt" aka hubby's cousin

she's only 5 years old! she doesn't look like one right?

a very smart girl!

very good temperament, able to read the whole books when she's 3 -4 years old?

not that kind of baby books but those for pri school kids?

you won't believe until you see it yourself!

no wrong pronunciation either!

how i wish my girl could be like that.

Cheryth with her swimsuit.

FYI this is a passed down swimsuit

not buying her afraid she outgrow it fast and we very seldom thought of swimming.

be we will be swimming at the chalet of course! since she loves it so much :)

that hippo float i got for her! very cute right?

her just woke up face

Carlin is reading to Cheryth

new year is coming!

hope it will be a good year for me, my families and friends!

Christmas Day 2009 pictures!

2009-12-29T14:35:00.002+08:00

i have finished reading my books!

so im here!

my first christmas with Cheryth and i so gonna to blog it!

i mean pictures...

i didn't spend my eve or christmas with hubby though.

he's working that day and when we went out on the actual day he knocked off early but don't want to join us.

he told me he's tired..

yet when we reached home he still playing his game.

pissed me off to the max!

i mean IT'S CHERYTH FIRST CHRISTMAS right?!!

duh..whatever..

it's OVER don't wish to think about it again..

before going out

lighting inside the xmas tree.

so prettaye!

too crowded and stuffy inside.

breathless!

look at my girl excited and distracted face!

she's too enthu with the lights

till now my girl still look boyish!

everyone still asking me is a boy or girl

some with asked doubtfully "is a girl right?"

to me they are implying that they are not sure with it

i am too used to it

i believe my girl is the most beautiful thing on earth :)

on xmas eve

being too bored

i decides to trim my fringe as it's kinda long and irritating already

and being to "gei kiang"

i am super regret!

too ugly i know. :(

super long didn't have the sad feeling after haircut!

now i felt it

i am super sad okay!

2009-12-28T22:48:00.003+08:00

i am dead beat these few days

give me time to post some pics.

i will be back soon!

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

2009-12-25T22:03:00.002+08:00

have you had an enjoyable Christmas Day?

my xmas eve was damn boring

while my xmas day we had brought Cheryth to see lighting at town!

she really enjoyed looking at it and keep saying "whoa" "eh" and smile while pointing!

we didn't regret bringing her there!

the crowd there was super packed can!

almost died of suffocation inside the xmas tree outside the ion orchard

the lighting there was like getting more and more boring every year...

don't you agree with me?

2009-12-23T23:10:00.002+08:00

tomorrow will be eve of Christmas!

have you thought of where to go?

i don't think i have any activity tomorrow :(

hubby is not free and my friends sure have companion with them plus im broke!

so i have nowhere to go.

these few months im seriously broke

which i dont know why either?

but i didn't spend much on myself though

the most i think i spent 50 plus bucks on items online per month.

i wonder where's the money?

hmm. perhaps i've spent on gifts etc.

so no xmas present for hubby or whosoever

as for me

all are gifts from my birthday!

kinda fulfilled my "want to buy" items already!

i've a wristlet!

a Chanel lipgloss from Yvonne!

lingeries from hubby!

and a Clinique foundation from sis!

finally i have a better foundation!

ahahaha!

hopefully, i will handle with care i won't drop it!

that was not cheap and if it's crack i will feel a pinch on my heart

to me is meant for my personal use only

i don't like to share with others.

im very concern with this!

it's very unhygienic you see

last time ignorant me used to share with my sis

then she keep nagging at me to get one

alright so i get one myself!

after knowing from people that we shouldn't share face powder cause very dirty and unhygienic etc

will caused more blemishes or something

hope this one won't cause me have small white spot beside my nose area.

the next must buy item will be MAC concealer! heard that it have good coverage

as my dark circles is darker than before and my current concealer can't do a good job so i have to get it change

sigh.

how i wish i have a few thousand bucks for me to spend.

szehan told me few days ago that she saw a flight promo price to BKK plus tax was only 117!

in march season it's so god damn cheap lor!

but sadded part was the promo ended at 23rd Dec.

if it still on during feb period at least i still have a hope.

HOPEFULLY, me and hubby can save enough to travel

we hadn't spend our honeymoon yet :(

all the money stuffs motivates me to work

but if i work who gonna taking care of my child?

if i send her to childcare who gonna do the house chores?

after much analysing with hubby

even we hire a maid and im out working.

if i earn at least 1.5k per month

and average on hiring maid plus everything was around 1k

then after cpf deduction and everything plus expenses on food for myself

i was like left nothing!?

the difference is only i stay at home with my girl or im out working

income is no much difference just the increasing of my cpf :(

of course i will choose to stay with my girl right?

the motive for me to work is money!

if i work and left with no money i rather stay with my girl

btw, for the house chores i wouldn't allow my GMIL to do

she is too old for that already.

everyone in the house are all working except me

any job that can work from home??

hope you guys and me will enjoy the festive days!

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR! :D

2009-12-22T22:20:00.004+08:00

11 months old progress updated below!

how time flies isn't it?

she's turning one while i gonna be a mother for 1 year already which im so proud of myself!

because it's really requires lots of patience, endurance and perseverance!

and i had made it for almost a year!

well, for her birthday will be at NSRCC on 17th January 2010

the theme will be winnie the pooh?

will be buying the cake from Bakerzin and would like to take the bee's theme one

we loves the cakes from there yet they only have theme cakes like ben10 and the train one

and i have been cracking my brain to get a theme at least i can get the character's balloons etc.

yours truly has thought of the pooh bear!

cause pooh loves honey and naturally honey will have bees!

HAHAH!

though i think my girl likes minnie but no cake from there so i think winnie is cute too right?

she will not remember on what's she like when she grow up anyway

btw, my mum will be sponsoring me the cake! thanks mum :)

will get the 2kg ones.

should be enough for 30-40 pax right?

and that day we will be holding a buffet and a bbq at the same time

buffet will be from neo garden as i heard lots of good reviews from people

bbq stuffs we will get ourselves! (i loves my GMIL marinated chicken wings!! )

promised Cheryth i will get her balloons on her big day

which i dont know why she seems to love that so much.

maybe that haven't burst in front of her yet

oh im so anticipating for that day!

my first time as a mother to hold a birthday for my child!

definitely excited!

everyone MUST come!

so sad that my dear szehan unable to make it :(

to peilin p/s: you wanna mahjong that day? hahah

2009-12-21T20:43:00.002+08:00

Christmas is coming in 4 days time!

but this year Christmas my hubby can't spend it with me again :(

shall spend it with my girl then!

might be going out with in laws that day

and 26th Dec will be going hubby's aunt house

will bring Cheryth to her first swim in pool there

hopefully the weather will be good and she won't freak out by the water!

she already got a float and swimsuit

while my swimsuit seems missing!

i just cant find it at my mum's house lah!

doesn't want to wear bikini

what if it being pull by my girl?

sure damn embarrassing one

i wouldn't upload any photo in this post as what i promised

my apologies.

causes of it partly is my laziness plus it's my hubby off day!

he so gonna snatch it from me soon to play his FM 2010

super annoying one

well, i will sleep early tonight

just slept 3 hours last night and a 2 hours nap just now

dying soon!

feel so guilty that i didn't vacumn and mop floor today :(

p/s: does anyone knows NSRCC chalet have any mahjong table rental ? do let me know thanks!

Videos!

2009-12-20T22:46:00.004+08:00

as promised, i would upload tons of video of my girl!

do enjoy watching it!

IF you think my girl looks angelic, cute or something

you will change your mind after watching some of it! haha!

but to me she is still my precious, angel, sweetie, cutie or whatever nice you can think of !

i still loves her to bits!

her first car ride! she only know how to reverse at first

but after awhile she know the technique to move forward which is no video taken :)

the below one is opening her xmas gift from her grandma!

first time opening a gift for herself!

HERE COMES MY LITTLE IMP!

see how's she bully her grandpa, throwing tantrum and gets annoyed by me disturbing her!

nowadays she is really cranky!

maybe is her front teeth that caused her?

her first front teeth takes a week to come out but this current one seems to take longer time

i can see the white lining alr.

but still hasn't come out!

i think she is in much pain no wonder she is so hot tempered these few days!

which really caused me headache.

super naughty girl i have!

Cheryth 11 months old progress!

2009-12-20T21:41:00.004+08:00

One month to her 1st birthday!

started to learn talking

still hasn't stand without support yet

able to get up by herself by holding on things

has 4 teeth now!

when we scolded her she know how to act fake

know what's "gaigai" and will wave to us byebye when we says that

will recognised our house be it the void deck or our corridors

know how to ask for toys

will scold pepper when he barks cause we always does so when pepper barked!

will shows a lot of hand signs eg. come here, hello etc.

will crawl to me and kissed when i say kiss and will lean on my chest when i say hughug

i think i have stated in my previous post of her recent progress so i didn't state here.

anyway, i think "your baby can read" cd really helps her to learn lots of stuffs.

she will do the action when the cd played the songs!

she learnt to say words from there too!

2009-12-18T22:16:00.001+08:00

so sorry i might not be able to post something today.

i'm super TIRED!

sleep less than 5-6 hrs everyday

really not enough sleep these few days due to late night reading my eclipse.

just a few pages more to the next series!!

my upcoming post will have quite a no. of cheryth's video!

do keep coming my blog to check for my update! :)

and please click on my ads alright?

thanks!

Cheryth's toys

2009-12-14T21:05:00.008+08:00

my hubby's aunt has given us bulks of babies items since she is moving house few months ago i think?

super many things! but all are very useful and not cheap.

have those learning cds, fisher price riding car cum walker, fisher price animals music box toys, leapfrog music table, Chicco stroller,some puzzles and some stories books with or w/o electronics one.

and ya she did passed down clothes for Cheryth too!

IN BULKS somemore!

all are good quality clothes but we still continue buying her clothes hehe

half of our house are filled with Cheryth's stuffs!

some of the toys have been stayed inside my storeroom for quite long

and one fine day,

i've decided to take it out, cleaned it as i think she is old enough to play that already!

we've saved quite a bit on toys as my aunt in law really given us too much!

when we stepped in the toysrus

most of the toys quite similar on what she has.

other than those super bulky one lah!

oh!

Cheryth's auntie joanna mama says she gonna buy her a little tikes playing house when she is old enough to play!

don't know how true was that!

p/s: don't make my girl happy only k? hehe

Cheryth with her toys!

she so smart to know that the nose of the car will have music

and she is able to move forward and backward with the car!

but im still afraid she will topple over

with the leap frog music table and the fisher price farm music box?

but the leap frog table having bit of problem as it will suddenly no music at all :(

she always look so serious when playing her toys

and she will get sick of a toys very fast too!

super fickle minded one!

she getting cranky nowadays and which i don't know why

i not sure is she getting sick again as she have above 37 degree temp and vomitted a lil just now :(

hopefully, she is not getting unwell

*fingers crossed*

by the way,

her bithday venue have been confirmed

it will be on 17th Jan!

p/s: people please click on my ads! so that i've some motivation to blog! thanks!

birthday post!

2009-12-14T01:59:00.005+08:00

8th December 09

had dinner with my maternal family at Pioneer Wharf!

my parents treated me the dinner of course!

thanks dad and mom!

of course not forgetting my sis's cake! (yummilicious four leaves strawberry shortcake!)

and she owe me one clinique foundation or maybe other brand ?

not sure of getting what yet!

the dinner was not bad just that the waiting time is too long....

alright shan't elaborate more i'll let the pictures do the talking!

and pardon my super haggard look!

9th December 09

that's my actual birthday!

and my parents in law treated me to Pu Tien for dinner!

super crowded with people!

and the foods there are always not disappointing :)

afterwhich,

we went kiddy palace as MIL wanted to look for tricycles as she wanted to get one as xmas gift for cheryth

so she let her sit on it and see whether it's sturdy enough

cause MIL wanna get a sturdy, better and of course a pretty ones.

BUT

she is not thinking of getting it that day

she wants to go other places to look for more choices

and will buy it until she found one towards her liking

Cheryth loves the tricycle so much that she refused to come out.

when we pull her up she cried!

normally we bluff her to somewhere else she will forgot about it already.

so i carry her and run like a mad woman with my heels to make her laugh okay!

YES! i succeeded in making her laughed but when i stopped she cried again

because she remembered the tricycle!!!

her memory is getting better

which i suddenly find her grown so much!!

end up she gotten her tricycle from her uncle!

my BIL can't bear to see her crying

so he got her the trikes.

see how good is she of having such doting "shushu" right?

i think she is really fortunate cause she has everyone that dotes on her!

my parents, my parents in law, GMIL, SIL and BIL.

and the ones who will spoilt her of course is my parents, my FIL, GMIL and BIL

SIGH.

hopefully they won't turn her to a spoilt brat as she is super duper naughty now!

i will love her but i won't spoil her.

i will be a very strict mother!! i WILL okay!

Cheryth with her tricycle

the tricycle is better than it looks.

the wheels are quite sturdy!

and it's not expensive than what i expected!

back to the track please,

after the dinner and everything me and hubby trained to The Cathay to watch new moon!

i can't wait to watch the eclipse!

Jacob is so oh my gosh!

i like him more than edward a million times i mean the looks not the roles hahah

i like the way both of them for being so protective towards Bella :)

but i don't envy her though

i will live in guilt and dilemma :(

by the way i think me and hubby is real crazy

we just went there to catch a movie and cabbed home.

why don't we watch at JP will do right?

but i dressed up so nice already

watched there will be kind of weird i think

i will end this post with my photos

adios~

2009-12-13T17:19:00.003+08:00

sorry i'm just plain lazy to upload my birthday photo!

cause now im too engrossed on reading my sil's twilight eclipse book

i've stopped reading since few months ago as i have totally no time!

but ever since i watched the new moon movie

and being too anxious of wanting to know the stories so much

i HAVE to read it myself rather than waiting for the next series movie to be out right?

though i roughly know the ending

the next movie will be out in theatre around june next year if um not wrong.

it's damn long okay? six more months

i think by the time i've already finished reading the breaking dawn!

hopefully, i have the time reading it lah!

IF tonight im not tired to upload my birthday photo and pasting the links to my comp

i will probably blog it today.

but i doubt i have the energy because im super sleepy now

NOT ENOUGH SLEEP!

i need my beauty sleep~

sleep at 4am plus last night by reading the book!

i do read books one okay?

if i cant sleep at night or not interested in playing comp

i will start digging books to read

eg. babies info books, magazine, stories books etc etc.

provided the stories books must be not boring :)

but not chinese novels i think?

my sil and mil do read that like crazy.

too bad my reading in chinese words is too limited.

i can speak that but not read those chim words.

but am not so poor either

i don't fail my chinese in my schooling times HAHAHA!

Cheryth pictures

2009-12-11T21:22:00.005+08:00

some outdated pictures of my dearest!

except the few below ones are taken on this week

the rest is taken on the days she was sick so she looks abit thin on those pictures?

my cheeky baby is getting more and more cheekier and naughtier!

when i says mummy to her she will follow and says "mama"

then i say "pepper" she will says " baber"

then papa she will says " ah pak"

she started to learn talking i think :)

she has grown so much!

if i ask her to bang kiss she will put her hand on her mouth,

she will point her nose mouth etc if we asked her where's her mouth etc..

when i sings " head and shoulder knees and toes"

she will place her hand on her head!!

so cute right?

she know to do more hand signs like "no more" "bye" "twinkle star" "hello" etc.

what we teach her she will try to learn

more and more "dong shi" already!

and the funny things was when i scold the dogs she will scream at them too!

LOL!

cheryth on her sicky week..

this pic is taken on freaking 2 plus am!

she cant sleep well cause of her blocked nose!

relaxing on my pillow beside her daddy.

the wig that my mum got for her.

she disliked it so much!

haha

with her alphabet mat that her dad got for her as xmas gift?

we refused to get it at first as we afraid on the dog's fur will stuck there

wanna get those LG play mat but freaking ex!

no choice

she have no place to play so decided to get that

oh btw i have already updated the post of me with my gfs below!

the rest tomorrow k?

im super tired and sleepy now!

upcoming post will be about my birthday and birthday and birthday!

2009-12-10T13:18:00.003+08:00

hopefully i can blog by today?

my that super annoying hubby will be occupying my lappie for time being!

and i can only blog when he's not playing yet im free

tons and tons of photo is waiting for me to upload but i am super darn lazy.

only will post up some "beautiful" ones.

the rest FB!

wanna view it just add me!

BUT provided i'd know you :)

ciao~

busy!

2009-12-08T15:21:00.003+08:00

will be back blogging after tomorrow!

too busy these few days already!

oh, and tomorrow is my 20th BIRTHDAY!!

it will be 2 big candles and more from tomorrow birthday onwards.

will blog about the advance birthday celebration with gfs and of course the actual one.

will be having dinner with my side family tonight!

tata~

advance birthday celebration with GFs!

2009-12-06T21:12:00.004+08:00

it's my birthday celebration with my girls!!

was meeting peilin at lakeside first then met chris and her gf at JE

then the rest was at somerset 313.

the first thing szehan did when she sees me was to pass me the pressie that shares with peilin and chris

seriously had no idea what they got for me.

as it was packed with a box and a very pretty ribbon!!

walked around the new mall to look for foods.

but there's nothing look appealing to us only Marche?

which we had planned to have that before we came

saddening was that it's not opening yet :(

we have been discussing what to eat till we are damn famished!

at first was thinking of swensen then waruku pasta

so we headed to heeren for waruku and we saw the fish and co sign!

we decided to take that since we hadn't been there for so long!

i think i have some good luck with me.

when the waitress was telling us to toss 3 dices as they are having some promo or something

if it happen to have all the three the same we will get the stuff of what we tossed.

they have fish and chips, mystery gift, drinks, desserts etc.

then i threw the dices and i got all the three desserts!!!

LOL! i am so happy okay?

even the waitress are shocked!

she told me that im the first customer to get the free stuff

HAHA! im so lucky right? :)

the dessert i got was a fondant/lava cake which are very very nice!

and all the 6 of us ordered 3 sets of seafood platter for 2

my all time favourite :)

i think the people there will get pissed with us

because we are really damn troublesome can!

want this and that and that and this, seems like we had ordered for 500 plus bucks like that.

literally we are really "too much" LOL!

i will never forget this dinner

know why?

when we asked for my cake

they asked my friend to ask me to go on stage.

we was like HUH?

stage?

you know what's their stage was?

it was a chair!

and asking me to stand on it

i was like...

but not to spoil everyone mood i stand it!

freaking funny can!

luckily im wearing vone's shades so i don't feel embarrassed at all!

that szehan keep laughing at me till her eye makeup smudge lor!

LOL.

the staffs cheering me a birthday cheer i think?

very weird one.

alright to cut things short,

we went ion after that and they went my house as peilin is playing mahjong with my hubby they all.

i had enjoyed the day with my girls.

i will let the photo to do all the talking :)

thanks the girls for the gift and thanks vone for the cake!

i like the gift so much and loves you girls! :)

rantings!

2009-12-05T03:32:00.004+08:00

i will be back blogging when i upload my photo from my camera kay!

life for me is super stagnant and usual.

just that grandma in law went out working so i have to take care all the chores by myself again!

dont ask me why she out working at such a age which i dont know why either?

we had already stopped her yet she refused to listen.

and you know sometimes older age people tends to get stubborn right?

for me, i have been cracking my brains on trying new recipes for my girl's foods

cause i've been cooking the same ikan bilis, lean meat stock ABC porridge with conpoy (dried scallop)

TILL NOW hasn't change anything yet.

wanted to add on broccoli or cook some macaroni for her

but i dont know what's the right way to cut the broccoli?

to chop in pieces or throw the small bunch in? haha

and afraid the macaroni will turn out failure

okay, i'm too lousy to be a good cook.

i dread going market since young.

i know the fresher ones are from there

but i only buy stuffs from supermarket!

so all the market stuffs usually is my grandma in law does the job :)

and something real frustrating was when i fed my girl this amount of porridge then my MIL says too lil

then if i take a lil more then grandma in law (GMIL) says too much!

then who shall i listen to?

i dont want to quarrel or something which will lead more misunderstanding.

end up my hubby will be the one who suffer right?

but sometimes stubborn me just take the amount i want

if im not wrong the kids are not stupid right?

they will stop eating when they are full.

am i right or wrong???

enlighten me please!

but yeah.

for them i'm ignorant cause im a first time mother.

alright i admits it!

but sometimes i really want to make decisions myself you know!!

yaya, i have to understand there's only one baby in the house now

so IF i happen to have a second child i will make my own decision already.

i mean it kay!

i seriously HATES it when i do this thing then this say nono cannot must like this and yadah yadah.

damn it!

it's really getting on my nerves sometimes!!!

but i only can rant it here! boohoo

anyway, i will be going out with GFs later!!

now is going 4am soon and i have not turn it yet!

so excited!

i think i sleep lesser nowadays..

maybe i have fully recharged during my sicky times. haha

worst being sick!

2009-11-30T20:05:00.003+08:00

been sick for three days!

so is Cheryth :(

we fall sick around the same day i think

she start coughing on thurs while mine started on fri morning.

friday mine was just minor cough so i thought is not that serious

MIL is bringing cheryth to see doc and asked me wants to see together .

then the stubborn me thought was nothing so i say don't need?

Saturday, getting more and more unwell

slept almost the whole day!!

luckily MIL is not working so she can help me look after my girl :)

i almost fainted when i vacuuming the house.

thus, i stopped without mopping the floor and back to rest

didn't eat the whole day though .

at night i getting more and more restless!

sore throat and the coughing is killing me!

the next day morning MIL asked me to go see a doc

and i finally willing to go

went down the clinic alone as my mum has already got the queue no. for me

the trip down there was like taking me years to reach!

feeling super heavy head!

even vomited after visiting the doctor.

i don't have any fever just have cough, runny nose, and have lots of phlegm in my lungs and some wheezing sound in my lungs but not asthma cause i don't have it

sorts of infections like my girl.

doctor gave me 2 antibiotics, and anti asthma tablets and a cough syrup!

eww.. i hate medicine to core man!

it's nearly took my life to take those stuffs.

which hubby insisted me to finish my medicine.

but i can see the difference!

after i took the medicine i felt real better!

just having a slight cough and the irritating phlegm stucks inside my lungs.

arghh. being sick is not fun at all!

and the worst thing is my girl fell sick i'm unable to look after her :(

2009-11-28T00:15:00.006+08:00

i wish i have a few hundred thousands with me

then i will off to some vacations and shopping!

i want to buy this and that.

don't you all agree we girls from head to toe requires money?

sometimes i wonder how we girls can earn enough to spend

we girls has to be diligent enough to keep ourselves pretty

which sometimes i find it really a hassle

but i have no choice!

has to keep self pretty we can't be lazy!!

being a woman is not an easy task.

now i know why my grandma in law says next time if can don't be woman

"cha bor jing pai mia" means being woman very hard life.

side track a little.

wanna change a foundation.

wanted to try the Clinique ones.

not sure is it good.

and dont know should i change to loose powder?

i never used loose powder before but i know it's has lesser coverage

i have dry skin face but my T zone is quite oily.

my eyeliner always tends to smudge too

changed to gel one it's getting better but still smudge a lil ! (-.-)

plus i have super dark circles!

concealer is always my best friend :)

i had to change some of my cosmetics!

but first of all i need to have moolah first :(

nowadays i'm super super broke.

seriously needs a job!

and thinking to get a job too
!!!

but to choose between working and my girl is a very hard choice

if not working i can't buy my girl stuffs and lead a better life

BUT

if i choose to work i have to miss my girl growing up process, how she change and discipline her etc.

SIGH.

so hard to choose right?

if you stand in my shoes you will know how i feels :(

HOPES MY GIRL GET WELL SOON

SHE AND ME IS DOWN WITH COUGH!

no wonder why some kids get sick their mum gets it too and vice versa

i experienced it 2 times already

she had already seen the doc

her throat has slight infections.

and had very sensitive nose just like me

so her coughing partly of the reason is her nose.

hopes everything will be fine soon

my heart so aching to see her taking the medicines which she refused and we had to force it

no choice if she don't take it she won't recover :(

everyone should take care of youself alright?

the weather in sg is super bad which causes people to sick almost every season

drink more water will keeps the doctor away!